Need some new music to listen to as all my music has some association or memory attached 🥺
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Fr33yaa OP t1_iudx01k wrote
Hahaha that's true I didn't think of that 😂
Fr33yaa OP t1_iudxcz1 wrote
Anything is good, literally anything. I like most things tbh
justrightkinda t1_iudxsyx wrote
Agree that we need more info before we can give you recs, but just wanted to drop in to say I'm sorry about your breakup, OP! However, I think this is a great way to cope. After a breakup, I make it a point to try new restaurants, foods, drinks, etc. I invest in new habits and watch/listen to new content. If I'm financially able, I'll buy some new clothes. Just invest in yourself in new ways and build new facets of your personality that aren't associated with that chapter of your life! (with the caveat that you continue growing as a person and don't forget the lessons learned from that relationship)
mrmaglu t1_iudy1w5 wrote
They're all sorta similar. Maybe as a project do a deep dive into some other genre ... jazz, hip hop, whatever, learn the classics, the current waves, etc.
churribro t1_iudy5cs wrote
Take a look if you want, a couple if my playlists might have something new for you - though I have no idea what kind of music you are looking for.
CrassDemon t1_iudy5y5 wrote
Fr33yaa OP t1_iudy6ed wrote
Thank you so much! I don't want to reinvent myself just learn more about who I am ❤️ I know I'll be able to go back to those artists some time, but for now I need something different! I like most things to be honest, indie and emo seems to be my go to
justrightkinda t1_iudz3ws wrote
I would recommend some 70s, 80s, and 90s hits. Spotify will have some pre-made playlists! The disco era songs will be upbeat and a nice change from the emo songs.
BUT if you'd be willing to listen to a top notch Indie rock breakup jam before you change genres, "Changing of the Seasons" by Two Door Cinema Club was my anthem during my high school breakup, haha.
Billyjoelsbiggestfan t1_iudz7bb wrote
Since you’ve been gone- rainbow It helped me alot after my breakup but I hope your doing well
minor_thing2022 t1_iudztmf wrote
John Frusciante - The Empryean. Loud, in a dark room. That's the album that pulled me out of a dark time
Kidnovatex t1_iue0c7k wrote
If you haven't yet gone down the rabbit hole of MJK's trio of groups, Tool, A Perfect Circle, and Puscifer, then there's enough there to occupy you for months.
Alternative-Leg1095 t1_iue0emo wrote
The lead singer of gorillaz used to sing for Blur. Dave Mathews band is pretty similar to some of Coldplay's music.
Alternative-Leg1095 t1_iue1hcb wrote
David Bowie is really good. He was big in the 80's but was really ahead of his time. Tom Petty, Van Halen, Blue Oyster Cult (Don't fear the Reaper especially), Daft Punk, Billy Joel, Train. If you're into country: Alan Jackson, BlackHawk, Little Texas, Travis Tritt, Johnny Cash, Kenny Rodgers, Chirs Stapleton and Colter Wall.
[deleted] t1_iue1s9x wrote
You might like this song. https://open.spotify.com/track/3CX4Ygh1Wb7yYO0BQGhNyJ?si=F83GL21FT5uYP17zy5AX6w&utm_source=copy-link
Also sorry about your breakup OP. I know what that's like :(
moveandrun t1_iue2efr wrote
Bloodbath.
NosyargKcid t1_iue2ket wrote
Dope! Like I said, I'd wanna go somewhere where I wouldn't have to think so much & would just let the music take me & do with me as it will.
Dunno how much you'll love these as much as I do, but these kinds of tracks just get me fired up & ready to let loose. Disclaimer: it's definitely recommended to have some good headphones or speakers where you'll be able to hear & appreciate the low end as much as the mid.
[LSDREAM X INZO - BLASTA] (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0iTClWkQRPw) - probably my favorite EDM track released this year. Has all the best qualities of the genre that I adore: funky, heavy, produced well, showcases both artist's qualities so damn well. That last drop with the scream is just chefs kiss
[Au5 - Snowblind (ft. Tasha Baxter)] (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NkWadKHAnPI) - This song is just so beautiful. Tasha's vocals are incredible, the drops have mixes of drum n bass to melodic to heavy. Complete package of a track. Au5 is a master of his mixing too. If you like this, there's so many artists in this vein you might adore, like..
[ILLENIUM - Blame Myself (Virtual Riot remix)] (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zBJIqOhLTvo) - More along the melodic dubstep side. Lyrics could be decently relevant right now for you as well. He's got an album coming out soon too & I've enjoyed the singles a lot so far, like [All That Really Matters] (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3gxxW5NqICc).
[Seven Lions x ILLENIUM x Said The Sky - Rush Over Me (ft. HALIENE)] (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uhA55hYnoHw) - Another melodic one. HALIENE's voice is so angelic & mixed so well into the track. Lyrics are very touching as well.
[Seven Lions x Excision x Wooli w/ Dylan Matthew - Another Me] (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I7pZR9hZ9XU) - Good mix of artists here with Seven Lions great at making emotional melodic builds & then Excision & Wooli bringing the heavy. A nice segue into the next dude, since he's a bit of an Excision Lite.
[Midnight Tyrannosaurus - Brain Sludge] (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PKDYqJfvgsQ) - Love the Borderlands Psycho samples. Much heavier though but I'd want a little aggression to release some of the anger I may feel about the ongoing situation. Midnight T can make a hell of a buildup & once the "bad time" comes, I'm completely fucking lost in the sauce.
Decent little selection there. If you like them & want more, I'll definitely share more as I love this music way too much.
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iue3vyh wrote
For me, a good angry purge song helps.
Fleetwood Mac -- Planets Of The Universe ("Rumors" Demo, 2004).
To me, this one is a million times better than the fully fleshed out song that Stevie did on the "Trouble In Shangri-La" album.
......
And how about Eminem -- Stronger Than I Was.....
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iue4a9x wrote
Here's a really good one.
DIR EN GREY -- Footsteps In The Lonely Valley
.........
"The echos pile up, breaking my heart over and over.
I shake off the pain I’ve become used to, I can no longer feel you.
The ugliness and the laughter in the memories which flood over me...
Should I just forget them?"
Paladin6667 t1_iue4p4q wrote
Title fight - Head in the ceiling fan
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iue5sp8 wrote
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VNV NATION -- "Gratitude"
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It is not love, if love is cold to touch.
It is not belief, when there's nothing there to trust.
Could not submit, would never bring myself to heel.
Determination grows, as each truth's revealed.
Torn and repaired, just to endure it all again.
Without a reason, for my place in all this pain.
Though well concealed, the scars, they just compound.
Until there's nothing left -- of what once was my former self.
My god, look at what we are now.
Without regret for all the things that we have done.
Thank you for all the doubts, and for all the questioning.
For all the loneliness and for all the suffering.
For all the emptiness, and the scars it left inside.
It inspired in me -- an impetus to fight.
For the conviction, for the purpose found along.
For the strength and courage, that in me I've never known.
And if it seems to you, that my words are undeserved.
I write this in gratitude -- for whatever good it serves.
Sometimes I wish, that you could see me now.
In the rightful place, where I knew that I belonged.
Sometimes I wish, that you might someday understand.
And close the chapter, and lay to rest the past.
But nothing would change, we make the best of what we have.
For we are measured by the actions of our lives.
We bide our time, let the future unfold.
Like immortals, in great legends to be told.
My god, look at what we are now.
Without regret for all the things that we have done.
Thank you for all the doubts, and for all the questioning.
For all the loneliness and for all the suffering.
For all the emptiness, and the scars it left inside.
It inspired in me -- an impetus to fight.
To all who stood with me, when we stood as one.
Thank you for guiding me, for bringing me home.
And if it seems that I'm obliged to say these words.
I write this in gratitude, the least that you deserve.
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iue6lw1 wrote
....
THE CRANE WIVES -- CAN'T GO BACK
.................................................
It's time to learn to be...
More forgiving of yourself.
And your sins.
And those mistakes you made.
You've gotta try to take...
The lessons away from them.
And leave the rest behind.
Oh, regret, put it out, put it out of your mind.
All the self-loathing in the world...
Won't change a thing.
'Cause you can't go back, darlin'
The time has come for moving on.
You can't be always trying to dig up....
What you've already buried.
You've got to carry, carry, carry on.
Carry on.
It's not fair.
It's not fair.
It's not fair.
(When have you ever known the world to be a fair place?)
It's not fair.
(All things end and all things change)
It's not fair.
(You'll go back and laugh someday)
It's not fair.
(Or at least you'll learn to be okay)
'Cause you can't go back, darlin'
The time has come for moving on.
You can't be always trying to dig up...
What you've already buried.
You've got to carry, carry, carry on.
Carry on.
It's time to learn to be.
More forgiving of yourself.
FullRollingBoil t1_iue6mph wrote
Welcome To The Fold - Filter
Little Horn - Marilyn Manson
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iue7ac4 wrote
Pink -- Who Knew....
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iue7quf wrote
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DAVID BOWIE -- SUNDAY
..........................
Nothing remains.
We could run when the rain slows.
Look for the cars or signs of life.
Where the heat goes.
Look for the drifters.
We should crawl under the bracken.
Look for the shafts of light on the road.
Where the heat goes.
Everything has changed.
For in truth, it's the beginning of nothing.
And nothing has changed.
Everything has changed.
For in truth, it's the beginning of an end.
And nothing has changed.
And everything has changed.
In your fear....
Of what we have become.
Take to the fire.
Now we must burn.... All that we are.
Rise together.
Through these clouds.
As on wings.
In your fear, seek only peace.
In you fear, seek only love.
In your fear, seek only peace.
In you fear, seek only love.
In your fear, in your fear.
As on wings.
This is the trip.
And this is the business we take.
This is our number.
All my trials, Lord.
Will be remembered.
Everything has changed.
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iue8jyw wrote
...
DREDG -- HUNGOVER ON A TUESDAY
............................
So long to the hurt and stormy weather.
It's time for a cleansing....
Nice try, but you can't avoid this forever.
You know it makes you feel good.
Feeding on your soul.
You'll search for a cure.
You'll want to be sure.
You don't lose control.
You'll want to be sure.
That this is really you.
So long since I can't even remember.
It's time for renewal....
You know that you won't have fun after.
You know it makes you feel good.
Feeding on your soul.
You'll search for a cure.
You'll want to be sure.
You don't lose control.
You'll want to be sure.
That this is really you.
I fell towards the fire...
Shielding myself from sin.
Things are looking brighter.
This is the way I want to live.
So long to the hurt and stormy weather.
It's time for a cleansing....
Nice try, but you can't control me forever.
Feeding on your soul.
You'll search for a cure.
You'll want to be sure.
You don't lose control.
I'll always be sure.
You'll want to be sure...
So long to the end...
You'll always be there ---
.
#But you are gone to me!
CrapandVomitGargler2 t1_iue8w8c wrote
Oh ok so you're able to listen to pretty much all music now.
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iue9dvv wrote
I'm just giving O.P. suggestions.
CrapandVomitGargler2 t1_iue9ix8 wrote
I mean OP has really shitty taste, maybe you can fix it?
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iue9lbb wrote
Where do we gooooooo from heeeere.
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iuea18j wrote
An underground gothic band called Ophelia Rising does an AMAZING cover of "The Speed of Pain" it may not be ~every~ Manson fan's cup of tea, but it's been one of my Go-To breakup songs since I first found it on a p2p client back in the early 2000s. (I think I found it on Grokster or Morpheus or one of those Napster-like things).
Still gives me chills.
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iueb44q wrote
I dunno -- my music taste is pretty all over the place, and my brain is constantly cycling from lyric to lyric.
I like Hip Hop, Japanese Metal, Video Game OSTs, some 70s and 80s music (Men At Work, Duran Duran, Kate Bush, Pat Benatar)...
Industrial (NIN, Manson, Mindless Self Indulgence)
Japanese Speedcore (DJ Sharpnel)
J-Pop (Ayumi Hamasaki, Utada Hikaru, Camui Gackt)
I think the only genre I'm not super fond of is Country Music, but despite my dislike of the genre I still enjoy some Reba McEntire songs.....
Oh hell yeah....
THE FEAR OF BEING ALONE....
I feel wierd liking this kind of stuff, this is like... My mother's style of music. But damn it just hits, ya know????
CrapandVomitGargler2 t1_iuebepd wrote
Yeah you can fix OP and get him out of his post break up depression, show them all the different textures and emotions that are out there beyond Taylor Swift and coldplay🤮
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iuecdpi wrote
Radio / MTV is the McDonald's of Music. Oh wait, MTV doesn't even play Music anymore, just stupid Reality TV shows.
I don't ~hate~ Coldplay, they're ok. But I wonder if they are aware that their song "Speed of Sound" rips off a synth melody from the 1981 song "Mechanical" by a New Wave band called The Quarks.
You can't tell me that it don't sound like the same melody. Lol....
Bah-doop-booba-dah doop.
Bah-doop-booba-dah doop.
Also "Clocks" ....
CrapandVomitGargler2 t1_iuecu3f wrote
It's not uncommon for two songs to sound the same.
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iued2ws wrote
People say that "Robo's Theme" from Chrono Trigger sounds like "Never Gunna Give You Up" by Rick Astley, but I don't hear the similarity at all. It feels like kind of a stretch....
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iuedmz4 wrote
"Anything is good, literally anything. I like most things tbh."
Okay, cool.
How about ....
MUCC -- RYUUSEI
QuiGons-Gin t1_iuee19t wrote
Please listen to the band Her's. You'll thank me later
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iuee1r7 wrote
THE GAZETTE -- REGRET
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iuees9a wrote
EIGHT -- INOCHI HI
Other than "aishiteru" I don't understand a friggin' word, but dear god this song fucking slays me.
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iuef41b wrote
"Yeah you can fix OP -- show them all the different textures and emotions that are out there beyond Taylor Swift and coldplay🤮"
It could be worse, at least O.P. isn't a K-Pop fan, lol (Visual Kei / J-Rock kicks all those Korean Backstreet Boy Band's asses).
Fr33yaa OP t1_iuefb1i wrote
That's just the shit that's making me cry, more memories rather than genre 😂 but tbh I'm not going to disagree with you!!
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iuefpvo wrote
CRY TO YOUR CHRIST, TO YOUR GOD....
even though he's the one...
WHO DID THIS TO YOU!
It's not like you killed someone!
It's not like you drove a hateful spear into his side!
Praise the one who left you broken down and paralyzed.
HE DID IT ALL FOR YOUUUUU-WHOOOOAAHHHHH....
CrapandVomitGargler2 t1_iuefy4s wrote
You've got a brand new life ahead of you! I'm sorry to hear about your breakup, the good folks here will set you straight. Music is a powerful coping tool, I hope you can find some peace
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iueg93d wrote
Threw you the obvious.....
And you flew with it on your back.
A name in your recollection.
Down among a million same.
Difficult not to feel a little bit....
Disappointed and passed over.
When I look right through --
To see you naked but oblivious.
And you don't....
See...
Me....
But I threw you the obvious.
Just to see if there's more behind...
The eyes of a fallen angel.
Eyes of a tragedy.
Here I am expecting just a little bit -- too much from... the wounded.
But I see, see through it all
See through, and see you.
'Cause I threw you the obvious.
To see ... what occurs behind the...
Eyes -- of a fallen angel.
Eyes -- of a tragedy.
Oh well....
Ohhhh well...
Apparently nothing.
Apparently nothing... at all.
You don't, you don't, you don't see me.
You don't, you don't, you don't see me.
You don't, you don't, you don't see me.
You don't, you don't, you don't see me.
YOUUUUUU DOOOON'T -- see me.
You don't see me at all.
jasonketterer t1_iuegr35 wrote
"Forget Her" - Jeff Buckley
w7edwin t1_iuej5ke wrote
I have a couple playlists in my Apple Music profile that tries to have a variety of music
Songs you Need To Hear/Know: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/songs-you-need-to-know/pl.u-JjNmtWqZb2E
Music of the Future [weird experimental songs mostly by independent artists]: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/music-of-the-future/pl.u-7j77INgX8ex
If you want to discover non-English music I made a Essential Spanish Music playlist: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/spanish-music/pl.u-1183iZME9P2
Fr33yaa OP t1_iuenrtr wrote
Thank you so much x
Also just as a nag, I'm a woman 😂 not offended just felt the need to point it out
CrapandVomitGargler2 t1_iueofz8 wrote
Oh my bad
HollandMarch1977 t1_iueq5mb wrote
I advise you not to get into the habit of avoiding music.
The only thing I can’t listen to is Modest Mouse because of an ex. But lots of other music is tied up strongly with that relationship and I still listen to it.
I feel like a lot of other music would have gone the way of Modest Mouse if I had allowed it to. And that would have been a shame.
Push through and keep listening to things you love. It’s your music. No one or nothing should take your things away from you. However, when you’re listening to this music, be mindful of the present. Allow your brain to create new associations.
CrownOfSinn t1_iuer8st wrote
What kind of music do you like or in the mood for?
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Medical-Department60 t1_iuet1vv wrote
John Mayer. The Born and Raised Album.
FranticToaster t1_iuetngh wrote
"You Suck" by Strapping Young Lad.
A tasty preview:
"
Tell me how much they fuckin' suck!
Hell yeah they fuckin' suck
Even your girlfriend fuckin' sucks!
Hell yeah she fuckin' sucks
Oh, fuck you, you fuckin' fuck!
Hell yeah you fuckin' suck
Ah, tell me how much you fuckin' suck
Hell yeah we fuckin' suck
Hell yeah you fuckin' suck
Hell yeah you fuckin' suck!
We are the losers of all that we know!
Fuck us all!
"
TheGlowpt6 t1_iueyf2g wrote
In the Aeroplane over the sea - Neutral Milk Hotel
confituredepoire t1_iueylfu wrote
Hi mate, here’s a few songs, hope they’ll will cheer you up :((
Potential-Tension285 t1_iuez8ew wrote
The offspring - spare me the details. Woman I have Been in love with for 30 yrs broke my heart, and the kids have suffered for it.
bignerd64 t1_iuf0ait wrote
Bowie was big in the 70s too. He was able to transform himself and his music, but kind of sold out in the 80s. Dancin in the streets with Jagger was a huge POS. Not all of his early stuff was for everyone, but he had some great pre 80s music. Petty was the same, able to keep up with the times, and never pigeon holed himself.
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iuf0qak wrote
ImRigly t1_iuf5fwe wrote
Try radiohead. My favorites are Karma police, paranoid android, 15 step, Ful stop and weird fishes. To me radiohead feels like a more depressed version of twentyonepilots. If you want something upbeat i would recommend instrumental math rock. It sounds unique because the genre consists of songs that use odd time signatures, which feel "alive", you can find plenty of playlists with it on youtube.
ireallylikealestorm t1_iuf8rt4 wrote
Cerebral incubation
JakobDahle t1_iuf99c4 wrote
you’ve never heard this before. and I’m sorry about your breakup! That sucks..
gogojack t1_iufem3o wrote
My ex was a huge Fleetwood Mac/Stevie Nicks fan. Whenever one of their songs comes on, I "nope" right out...except for one...
I crank up "Go Your Own Way" every time.
One other song that really helped was Don Henley - The Heart of the Matter I always liked the song, but I never really listened to the lyrics carefully. When I did - after we broke up - I finally 'got' the song.
SquirrelKing2022 t1_iufkul8 wrote
Lorna Shores new album Pain Remains.
Revolutionary_Low_90 t1_iufvzey wrote
The whole Blood on the Tracks album by Bob Dylan is written after his separation from his wife, Sara Dylan. I thought this might help.
disconnecttheworld t1_iugez08 wrote
Spiritbox - eternal blue and rotoscope
Sleep token - this place shall be your tomb, and sundowning
Resolve - between me and the machine
Unleash the archers - just pick an album they make good stuff
Royal blood
Red fang
Clutch
Amaranthe
Butcher babies
Lacuna coil
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Antifreudian t1_iugmhef wrote
I really like the kid LAROI, and I am getting into Billie Eilish
Echoes_prod t1_iuhb24c wrote
Chocolate Town - E ve, Sou
PerhapsWePlow t1_iuhfnqs wrote
Dude I fucking hope there are no remaining fans of Manson. He is exactly the piece of shit everyone initially assumed he was.
PerhapsWePlow t1_iuhfp37 wrote
Arctic Monkeys
PerhapsWePlow t1_iuhfy13 wrote
"I used to like Tool until they made the same album,
That they made the last time they made the same album,
Every time they make a damn album its the same album, really.
And only stoners listen to their music, it's silly."
PerhapsWePlow t1_iuhg343 wrote
Tame Impala, motion city soundtrack
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iuhsovb wrote
I'm gay and I ~still~ like Eminem even if he spouts the F-slur every 5th sentence, lol.
What did Manson do? It would have to be on an Ian Watkins from Lost Prophets level of fucked up for me to really care.
Fluffy_Little_Fox t1_iuhswvz wrote
The quotation marks imply you are ~quoting~ someone else's remarks, or are these opinions your own?
NosyargKcid t1_iudvj2d wrote
What type of music do you generally like? Cause otherwise I'm just gonna recommend some EDM music because I don't know what you like & I'd wanna go out to a show & forget about shit.