Submitted by TraditionalCourage t3_yqlg8w in books

I realy like the website, but I'm not seeing enough interactions in it as number of the friends I have there is hardly even 10. I've already used its friend search function which goes through my facebook and email contacts; but very limited luck.

No one is reading my reviews there, nor react to my status updates, which is kinda inducing an isolated feeling, lol.

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heykittums t1_ivoua3p wrote

Join some groups. Most of them have a "introduce yourself" or "meet some new friends" threads. That's how I've found all mine.

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ina_sh t1_ivouupk wrote

There are groups in Goodreads??? Where?? How? What do they do?

Edit: aahh that's why I never came across the groups on the App: on Android, "it's not currently possible to join new groups using the app. We recommend using our desktop or mobile sites to do this."

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ARoyaleWithChez t1_ivovalq wrote

I dont have any friends because I’m a jackass. What’s your excuse?

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[deleted] t1_ivow17o wrote

I have maybe lesser than you lol

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Lovepirate1962 t1_ivows5z wrote

Newsflash: "friends" on social media are really not your friends.

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clockworkdance t1_ivoxxeg wrote

I pick a few good reviews on books I like, click on the reviewers' names and use the "compare books" link. If we have a lot of books in common and their member page shows recent activity (especially of the review or comment variety), out goes the friend request. This is a more time-consuming method but I find it a fun activity on its own.

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IamSithCats t1_ivoy133 wrote

My Goodreads friends are a mixture of IRL friends, current and former coworkers, and a handful of random people who sent me friend requests out of the blue that I accepted (I don't do that on other social media, but on Goodreads it's whatever). I think a lot of other people find friends by joining groups.

Seems to me like most of the accounts I run across with high friend/follower accounts are people who deliberately cultivated a large following because they are book bloggers. I have no interest in becoming one of those, and their reviews will always display before (and therefore help to hide) mine, so I just write my reviews for me. If someone else finds and enjoys my review that's cool, but I don't expect it.

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D_is_for_Doomsayer t1_ivoyoe9 wrote

Groups, for sure.

When I joined, GoodReads was popular and so simply linking to social media carried over a ton of real-life people.

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keesouth t1_ivp05dm wrote

I only use Goodreads to track my reading. I'm honestly not interested in other people's reviews because I like to read a book with "fresh eyes". The friends I have on Goodreads are just people I know on real life.

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AdroitRogue t1_ivp0k3f wrote

I have 2 “friends” - my best friend and some random dude who reads totally different books. I have no idea why he’s there, but it’s been almost a year. I use the app only to track my reads.

Join some groups, maybe that can help.

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Eireika t1_ivp1oni wrote

I don't. I observe people with thoughtful and insightful reviews but I don't feel need to make "friends"

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otmike70 t1_ivp1p1e wrote

Groups are the way. But beware, you can quickly have too many friends there and all the sudden your feed is filled with people pimping their self published crap. I finally had to sit down and cull my friends list back down to about 25 people whose reviews I’d enjoyed and who make an effort to read mine too.

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Suspicious_Name_656 t1_ivp1uw2 wrote

I have one friend and they're someone I know IRL. I don't use the social aspects of Goodreads. It's really just a digital bookshelf for me to keep track of the books I have read, where I'm at in the books I'm currently reading, and the books I'm interested in reading.

ETA: I don't even read the reviews on Goodreads, or look at the star ratings for that matter.

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Choice_Mistake759 t1_ivp27oc wrote

>No one is reading my reviews there, nor react to my status updates, which is kinda inducing an isolated feeling, lol.

How about you reach out to others instead? Do you want dopamine hits from likes or interacting with people? Because if you want to interact from people, you can reach out on your own, read reviews by newest, click on like when you see a good point or argument, comment on a review if it is interesting.

It can be kind of organic, to meet strangers by hanging around small fandoms, commenting on new things, or following people whose taste or reviews you like.

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LilJourney t1_ivp307i wrote

I forget which sub it was, but I picked up a few from here on Reddit when someone put out a thread where people who wanted to share could post their goodreads id.

I prefer older books, currently on a mystery/thriller binge, but do fantasy, historical fiction and a variety of others depending on my mood. If you like the same, pm me and we can get each other's info.

I'm not on Goodreads all the time, but I do read others reviews, what they are reading and will toss out the occasional comment and some likes.

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it_is_Karo t1_ivp6kw7 wrote

I only have 2 girls from my book club as friends and we read the same book every month, so it's quite funny 😂 but at least I can see whether they liked it or not based on their rating

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dejabean t1_ivp6tv6 wrote

I joined Facebook groups a while back and gained Goodreads friends via those groups. I also follow bookish content creators I enjoy and people who I see pop up on multiple (mostly indie pub) books I have enjoyed or am interested in. Following allows you to see that person’s updates.

I’ve had interactions with a few users who sent friend request after seeing a review I’ve posted of a lesser reviewed book we have in common.

Do you send request or do you wait for them to come to you?

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Zikoris t1_ivp833x wrote

Most of mine came from r/52book, where I post my reading lists and monthly wrap-ups/progress.

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AnokataX t1_ivp9d1i wrote

I have random people add me because I post some reviews they liked I suppose. I'm also a Goodreads Librarian and may be in some other groups - I assume people see and add me out of curiosity.

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assholeinwonderland t1_ivpan0q wrote

None of mine are people I know from real life. Quite a few are people from book-related subreddits. A few are people from Twitter. Most are people who my Goodreads friends interacted with and I liked their reviews.

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Choice_Mistake759 t1_ivpee80 wrote

I am opening an exception for goodreads, I sometimes click compare books and OMG they read a lot of the same obscure stuff I did also, and there is a special category of real friendship which is liking the same books and being able to talk about them.

What you read that and love it also? You also hated that? That might not be real friendship but it is a kind of friendship for some specifically rare viewpoints...

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Username_of_Chaos t1_ivphdq8 wrote

At the beginning of the year, r/bookclub had a thread where you could introduce yourself and post your goodreads account, so I added and was added by a lot of redditors because of that. It's been great because all of us for the most part are reading the same books at the same time, so there is a lot of interaction and interesting comments/reviews.

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byrdlover t1_ivpi2mk wrote

Yeah be yourself, introduce yourself, meet people, have fun, it will just happen!

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pineapplesf t1_ivpmmme wrote

52book subreddit does a yearly Goodreads username swap

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oksnariel t1_ivpu3m0 wrote

i have about 300 friends because i had posted my goodreads on reddit (different sub)

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rachelreinstated t1_ivq0kn7 wrote

I think perhaps it comes to mentality? What do you want out of Goodreads? I don't have many friends on Goodreads but I like the aspect of basically just using it as my own reading journal. If people like what I have to say, they do engage and I've had a few reviews that have have gotten good organic engagement/discussion. But mostly, it's for me to track what I read each year and my thoughts on those books. People engaging is just a nice bonus/excuse to talk about books.

If I want actual discussion, I find reddit is actually better for that.

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nyrdcast t1_ivq8hj9 wrote

I don't have many friends, but I think I like it that way. I've had a couple of random people friend me, but they would like every review that they came across and it filled my feed up with those; it annoyed me because I like to see what my friends are reading. I ended up unfriending them.

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Solid_Tone923 t1_ivq9dfi wrote

I think it would depend on what kind of books you are reading and whether you are member of any groups. I mainly read old fiction (+200 years old) and non-ficition literature, and rarely got any reactions back when I used goodreads (I quit back in June this year, due to losing the ability to adding new books).

There are, however, probable more people visiting your profile - and reading your reviews - than you think; I got random reactions and friend-invites from people now and then.

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jle0509 t1_ivqci06 wrote

I have some IRL friends/family members and then any time someone I follow on IG or TT links their Goodreads, I’ll follow them!

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Euphoric_Echo_2395 t1_ivqdmh4 wrote

I only have 25 friends on Goodreads. Some of them are IRL friends. Some are random people who read somewhat similarly whose friend request I accepted. Some are from when some person from a Cyrillic-using country hacked my account and they added a bunch of people.

I follow a bunch of people whose reviews were interesting and some booktube people since I'm way too shy to send random friend requests to people I don't know.

I'm all over the place with my reading - manga, graphic novels, non-fiction, history, fantasy, sci-fi, horror, thriller/mystery, historical fiction, literary fiction, romance, etc. I don't review much but generally speaking I read and rate a lot (although long COVID has put a bit of a dent in that). I'm always happy to make new Goodreads friends though provided they aren't going to just promote their self-published books.

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hunnykurls t1_ivqfiba wrote

Honestly because of TikTok. A lot of people on book tok will share their goodreads

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skauing t1_ivqm63n wrote

I've never been able to find the option to compare books in the app (android), I think it's only available in a browser (just like half the features I use sigh)

in a browser you can click a drop down menu on someone's profile and it'll show you all the books you've both added to your pages and give you a similarity percentage for books you've both read/rated. it's pretty neat :D

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GrudaAplam t1_ivqowac wrote

I have no friends on Goodreads.

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bauhaus12345 t1_ivr9tna wrote

Start liking and commenting on other people’s reviews. If you think you might like their reviews in the future, send them a friend request or follow them.

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Same-World-209 t1_ivrujyw wrote

I’m part of a Sci Fi and Fantasy Books fan group on Facebook and everyone just shares the link for their profile for everyone else to add them…if they choose to of course.

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just_ain t1_ivsgmu4 wrote

I use Goodreads only to track my own reading & the review section is mostly a reminder for myself 🤣 but I really did not know that there was such a thing as "groups" that you can join there? That would make me visit the app a lot more!

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just_ain t1_ivsgs3x wrote

I agree with this! I use Goodreads for my own personal tracking only but I don't see much people discuss books on there.

Usually once I'm done with a book, I will come to reddit, search the book up and then have discussions from there!

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gipsystardustqueen t1_ivsl9cx wrote

The friends I have in GR have been the ones I added a decade ago, lol. Now, I only use GR to track my books.

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ihavenoidea1001 t1_ivsyp8w wrote

>I've already used its friend search function which goes through my facebook and email contacts

Not me using a completely different e-mail and name for goodreads...

>which is kinda inducing an isolated feeling,

I use goodreads as an online list of books I've read or want to read, not as social media.

This probably doesn't help you but just wanted to tell you that you're far from the only person without friends on that app.

Most people I've talked about goodreads are using it the same way I do and are ignoring all the social media side of the app

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Shinobu-Fan t1_ivszc7r wrote

Get a few friends then friend their friends

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lucy_valiant t1_ivtei0u wrote

I honestly have no idea how I have friends on Goodreads. Maybe four or five of them are people that I know irl and talk to about books. The rest seem to just appear. I’ll check one day on a whim and the number will have gone up by a dozen. The functions I use Goodreads for, though, are to take little notes on books and to write reviews (because I find it fun to do so). Everything else is superfluous so I barely interact with people on it at all, beyond maybe making a note specifically for one of those four or five people I know irl about how much they would like a book or passage or whatever.

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Odiseeadark06 t1_ivvwfjp wrote

I would say explore, search for the books you’re interested in, look through the reviews section, see what opinions you resonate with, request their friendship if you like their profile and reading shelves. If you watch booktubers you can try to find their profile… most of my friends on Goodreads are people I don’t know, but who are very inspiring. After all, it shouldn’t even be such a stress, you’re there to monitor your reading and find more books “socially”✨🥹

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MountainSnowClouds t1_iw68ho3 wrote

I've had people request to follow me after reading my reviews. Or it will come up in my feed that one of my friends on Goodreads followed someone new, so I'll check out their account and see if I want to friend them too.

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