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Front_Guarantee_2915 t1_irh2pas wrote

I gotta be honest. I could make all the money in the world and I wouldn't live in a doorman building. Nothing against the people who do. I just don't need to know extra people? Maybe? Forced socialization is tough.

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Front_Guarantee_2915 t1_irhcm4c wrote

Oh yeah I don't usually know my neighbors just because. They're either friends or they're just some person. I'm aware that's a me problem 🤣

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heavyunsure t1_irh7nv6 wrote

LOL I'm doing it rn reluctantly and I am trying to love it. But, it's weird. I don't like having to say goodbye/hello to someone every time 😩 and I worry about what I look like. I just feel very observed.

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JeromePowellAdmirer t1_irjvqgo wrote

Used to think like this but if they're a chill person they won't actually care about appearance (you become the "oddball friend we love") or if they care then they're not a good person anyways

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heavyunsure t1_irncr0j wrote

Yeah I've slowly gotten closer to/used to my door people but my gf is much better at fraternizing and she jokes around with them. They openly prefer us to others in the building which is very sweet and kinda funny.

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