Submitted by Scout_228 t3_zvzhoj in massachusetts
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RiverRATT65 t1_j1s41vr wrote
What is your take on the note tied along with the greenery to the bench? How did you feel when you found it?
It doesn't look like someone accidentally left it there. It is tied into place.
I wonder if someone disappeared at the park? Died there? And the person who left the gift/note hasn't seen the absent person in their dreams lately?
NoMoLerking t1_j1s5m4q wrote
Nyuk
J_Worldpeace t1_j1s639x wrote
Maybe he goes there and they’re estranged. Visit soon is the only reason I say that. I like your answer better.
Just_Another_Gamer67 t1_j1s6a24 wrote
The “visit soon” remark is what makes me think its for someone who is alive but I’m not sure if its someones way of coping with a death. Im not sure.
CrazyPlantLady8686 t1_j1s94fx wrote
He’s saying he misses him not visiting in his dreams. It’s definitely a memorial.
Cowboywizard12 t1_j1sbidf wrote
That looks like a memorial to me
4timesthesteak t1_j1sfk8m wrote
🎩🫡
JasonDJ t1_j1shsr2 wrote
My guess is probably somewhere between your two guesses.
Siblings had a falling out, Big bro wants to make amends but the other won’t answer his calls. Big bro knows the other one visits moms/dads/aunties/etc bench on Christmas and left a note for them to find.
gabbbbaayy t1_j1sk7yf wrote
Maybe it’s about the man with the white fluffy hair and really suntanned skin. I don’t know him but rumors are he’s homeless and people call him Moses.
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valley_G t1_j1soijo wrote
He means to visit his dreams. He said his dreams are lonely without him
BeeKynder01970 t1_j1sqddx wrote
Down vote me to death if you want. But, this is a memorial to someone gone but not forgotten. I know it's in a public place, but what would make someone want to take a picture and share it with all of us? I wish people had common sense and respect these days.
RefrigeratorLanky992 t1_j1ss0l1 wrote
My boyfriend talks to him every time he sees him, my guess is it’s about Moe too
J_Worldpeace t1_j1stk1k wrote
Good point
Therealmohb t1_j1sub2u wrote
Tough time of year for many people. Rest in Peace.
feliscat t1_j1t0v07 wrote
r/foundpaper
davidrsilva t1_j1t7xlc wrote
It was placed in a public place in the view of any random person. It is an interesting and touching thing to see and read. I don’t agree that it’s disrespectful or “common sense”. I’m fine with this photo being taken and shared.
Invincible_Duck t1_j1tagkh wrote
I agree. It’s a note from one person to their passed love one. It’s not meant for anyone else to read and certainly not hundreds of strangers on the internet. I’m sure the writer would have thought some curious passersby would stop to read it, but to share it online is such a tasteless thing to do
Skrapp_Mettle t1_j1tcmjx wrote
Moe could be Maurice or Maureen.
dharmaday t1_j1txyhe wrote
💕💕
Comfortable-Scar4643 t1_j1tze5d wrote
Estranged brother? The last time I was at Stage Fort park, it was clear that it was a hangout of opiate addicts. Perhaps this is related to that.
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Adonoxis t1_j1u1wqk wrote
Maybe don’t put it in public, on a bench where people sit, in an area where people walk through commonly then?
Kind of selfish and disrespectful in its own right to be honest but that’s clearly an unpopular opinion.
fuertepqek t1_j1u5f5y wrote
Such a silly comment. It’s weird how some people think. They’re sharing something beautiful that can teach us all something good for our lives and some person is getting angry that someone shared it with the community.
AnneP726 t1_j1u9jv9 wrote
Like an overdose.
1minuteman12 t1_j1uvex8 wrote
What gave it away?
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fuertepqek t1_j1vygq4 wrote
You’re seriously unable to learn anything from that gesture? 😕
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CANiEATthatNow t1_j1wd5uh wrote
Someone named Moe probably liked to walk up there and sit at that bench, he passed away and looks like his brother leaves a wreath in his memory. Very sweet.
fuertepqek t1_j1wkgyl wrote
Such an empty little mind…
feliscat t1_j1wt1cx wrote
What seems more likely
That someone wrote a letter like this and left it in public knowing that others would read it and was okay with that
Or that someone wrote a letter like this and left it in public hoping nobody else would read it
feliscat t1_j1wt86e wrote
Would it be disrespectful to read it in person, too? That is, is putting it online specifically what you find disrespectful?
Invincible_Duck t1_j1xjgm7 wrote
I said in my comment “I’m sure the writer would have thought some curious passersby would stop to read it.”
My point is therefore not that it’s wrong to read the letter, but that there’s a big difference between reading a random letter you find and going “oh thats personal I should respect it” and going “wow I bet I could get internet points if I take a picture of someone else’s response to the loss of a loved one and post it on Reddit.”
It’s similar to how I believe it’s wrong to take pictures of fatal car accidents, or people in extreme emotional distress. It’s a private thing that, while seen in a public place, should be respected and left alone. Maybe your morals don’t line up with mine and that’s fine, in morality there is no one right answer.
I’m sure you can agree regardless that while the writer surely knew others would read it, it was not meant for any of them.
BeeKynder01970 t1_j20g686 wrote
I guess I just don't understand the thought process behind the action. You see the obvious memorial, you take a picture of it and decide to post it online. What purpose has this served? Are you adding value to the world or to your own life? It hasn't hurt anybody, so it's not actually a big deal. I just don't understand, and I guess I don't have to. So maybe disrespect wasn't what I was trying to convey.
PakkyT t1_j28sz7d wrote
Seem like you automatic take on this is the person taking the photo did it with malicious intent. Perhaps it was for the very opposite intent. Note that the poster didn't make a comment on it but simply posted something they found and found interesting. That you immediately take it to be a negative thing says more about you than the photographer.
Just_Another_Gamer67 t1_j1s3dau wrote
Is it a memorial of some sort. Im a bit confused as to what else it could be