D00TZpop t1_jcl3910 wrote on March 17, 2023 at 4:44 PM

Call your legislators

Action_Maxim OP t1_jcl62h1 wrote on March 17, 2023 at 5:02 PM

What are they going to do...

D00TZpop t1_jcl8umi wrote on March 17, 2023 at 5:20 PM

They can connect you with different government programs and organizations that can help with your situation. Most offices have case workers who deal with this sort of stuff everyday

Action_Maxim OP t1_jcla5f1 wrote on March 17, 2023 at 5:28 PM

Lead with that friend, I thought you were being sarcastic tbh, I appreciate it and I'm making a call now.

Thisismypasswprd t1_jcokkgc wrote on March 18, 2023 at 10:48 AM

Why don't you at least do a 4 second Google search before you start complaining.

Action_Maxim OP t1_jcop6vt wrote on March 18, 2023 at 11:45 AM

This isn't something they're upfront about also I spoke to someone and they don't offer anything other than phone numbers of services we aren't eligible for

Thisismypasswprd t1_jcouwgc wrote on March 18, 2023 at 12:44 PM

You realize this is a shit ass job? Think about how much you'd have to make to do this job.. then add business costs on top and taxes too. ... only a truly wealthy person can pay to have someone take care of them.

Action_Maxim OP t1_jcoy3f4 wrote on March 18, 2023 at 1:13 PM

Agencies make a shit ton so I'm looking to work directly with a caretaker for around 45 an hour cash. Being that the average hourly for this is under 20 I feel an untaxed 45 is fair considering I need someone to just microwave her food and make sure she is clean.

Thisismypasswprd t1_jcp99aj wrote on March 18, 2023 at 2:42 PM

Wow finally.. yes I think you'll find someone for that rate if the hours work for that person. Keep looking for a friend of a friend of a friend. Thats your best bet