SuperS0l t1_iu1yi02 wrote
How do you know your parents won’t accept you losing weight? Why do you have to bulk? That part does not make sense to me
horriblyefficient t1_iu3idx2 wrote
sounds like their parents are aggressively demanding adherence to a specific gender presentation.
SuperS0l t1_iu3ulvt wrote
OP never said that though.
That’s the problem we can’t assume that. How do we know what conversations they’ve had with their parents? How do we know it’s not all assumption. This whole “I can’t do anything” is very vague.
They said since they can’t lose weight they have to gain? That doesn’t make any sense. I doubt a parent is telling their kid to gain weight unless this person could be unhealthily thin and to them that looks “femme”
They’re 19 talking about “running away from home” it just sounds like a bad idea waiting to happen.
horriblyefficient t1_iu3y48g wrote
I'm not sure this is really relevant to their question.
but, controlling parents can do very illogical things. I don't see why we should doubt this OP more than any of the other young people who come here asking how to get away from abusive parents.
SuperS0l t1_iu4121b wrote
That aspect is very important. You know how many kids assume their parents feel a certain way because of how their parents act towards others and just assume that’s how they will act towards them?
There’s so many kids being told that their parents are evil when their parents are just ignorant to what’s going on.
My question could have been answered by OP and we would have had more insight into the situation.
Absolutely no one should be providing advice with this much information? There’s no specifics. “I live in a rural area and can’t do anything” I’ve felt that way cause I was bored?
People are so quick to jump and assume things and provide advice.
horriblyefficient t1_iu7bnk3 wrote
this is a sub for personal finance, not familial relationship management.
op hasn't responded to any comments, my answering with my best guess hasn't stopped them from answering you.
SuperS0l t1_iu7drzp wrote
Oh no I know I didn’t mean it as a sleight to you.. just the post itself didn’t seem well thought out
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