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PsychologicalPanda84 OP t1_ja84aky wrote

Reply to comment by HarveySnake in My(29F) boyfriend(31M) got an email from a online hookup app. by PsychologicalPanda84

Here’s the thing, he works in IT! And you’re right, it’s basic knowledge! I only did so because the email came from benaughty.com, He clicked on it multiple times too trying to show me it’s not his account. He was even messing with the location. So isn’t it a red flag that he didn’t automatically think or say “wait no babe why did you click on that link! It’s a virus!” Instead, he got mad and gave me the silent treatment for about an hour. Came into the room and then tried to “prove me wrong” by editing his profile.

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HarveySnake t1_ja87qd3 wrote

Even IT people do dumb shit with their emails. That's coming from personal experience.

The thing that lends truth and credibility to your boyfriends idiocy is that its a sketchy website and not a phone app. If your bf had wanted to cheat he would probably stick to the more popular methods: Tinder or Bumble or OF. Sketchy website = instant identity theft with no sexy times. Everyone knows that, unless they are an imbecile.

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PsychologicalPanda84 OP t1_ja891ip wrote

He did have tinder and bumble and even hinge, but I made him erase those apps. So I thought he found a website to use since his laptop is always locked.

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HarveySnake t1_ja8bzsn wrote

If its a work laptop it will be required to be locked. Generally that's company policy. Personal laptop, open to interpretation... My daughter and son both have laptops that auto-lock. They are adults and neither of them are in relationships and their education on computer safety from myself and the local high school really hammered home the necessity of locking your laptop.

If you are looking for proof of cheating, check his phone. That's where the apps will be and any communication apps (dm's through social media, snapchat, whatsapp, etc...)

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PsychologicalPanda84 OP t1_ja89bqb wrote

Also it’s a real website, sketchy true, because it’s all bots, but it’s a real website idiot men use

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