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Zealousideal-Meet588 t1_jefrv17 wrote

Reply to comment by yowen2000 in I(25F) like A(25M) but A's brother H(24M) likes me by [deleted]

There's another issue between A and me. I updated the post. A is my ex's collegues.

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yowen2000 t1_jefuthw wrote

If A is really good friends with your ex, do you really want to be in that position?

Has A mentioned it being awkward that he is friends with your ex?

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Zealousideal-Meet588 t1_jefx4oq wrote

I avoided A as a dating prospect for this reason only..but this time we met, I realised there's a chemistry between us. We spoke about my ex as well. And A's opinion was that now that your ex broke up with you and us dating someone else he should have no opinion on your life about who you date or meet. And since my ex had an objection with me being in touch with A, A commented he would stay friends even if my ex had an issue with it

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yowen2000 t1_jegd93m wrote

Sure, your ex has no opinion here.

But you and A do, so again, do you want to be in the situation where you're dating someone that your ex is close to?

And in all of the above, I mean this in the kindest way possible, but you said a lot, without saying much at all, we don't know if A has reservations about it too. Unless you thought he was referring to himself.

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