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HatsAndTopcoats t1_iydneek wrote

What makes you think he's interested in "working on it"?

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Wise-Injury-3045 OP t1_iydqed4 wrote

He usually ends up admitting he was wrong and says he'll change, but at this point, it just feels like it's never going to.

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HatsAndTopcoats t1_iyds1b4 wrote

Okay, do you want to keep going through that over and over?

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Wise-Injury-3045 OP t1_iye7ldu wrote

I don't, but I guess what makes it hard is what if he does change?

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HatsAndTopcoats t1_iyeqybp wrote

He could change in the way you want. He could also go to law school. Or decide to move to France. Do you want to make decisions based on the possibility of things that seem to have no realistic chance of happening? If you stay with him for five years and this hasn't changed, will you be glad you waited around just to see if it would?

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