WildlyUninteresting t1_j2cxfm5 wrote
Reply to comment by the6souls in [23M] [57M] My father refuses to accept I don't want a relationship with him. How do I end it for good? by BringbackDreamBars
So you would want your dad to give up on you because at 11 you both had a fight and you left?
Then 10 years later, you still resented a childhood fight? Never trying to make up?
the6souls t1_j2cyjta wrote
No, I would want my dad to give up on me when I repeatedly fucking blocked him. No is a full response. If that father lacked the ability to listen and accept responses from me, then it would only make my life worse to have continued contact with that person.
There is no reason, absolutely none, that makes it okay to harass someone. That's what this is. Making new accounts to keep bothering someone is harassment, the reason why is irrelevant.
It's concerning you don't see repeated, unwanted contact in spite of clear communication to that effect, as a bad thing.
WildlyUninteresting t1_j2d0fdf wrote
Concerning you don’t see the bigger issues.
This is an issue that may be resolved with communication.
You would want your dad to give up on you. That’s unfortunate but explains a lot.
the6souls t1_j2d0ocl wrote
What issue is bigger than harassment? Why are you defending someone who is repeatedly harassing someone else?
Anyone who does this shit is a pathetic loser, without exception. OP does not want this contact. Their father needs to get over himself. If he cared about OP, he wouldn't go against his wishes. The father clearly doesn't give a damn about OP, or he would listen to what OP's actions say.
If you need me to be even more exhaustive in explaining this very simple concept, let me know.
WildlyUninteresting t1_j2d138b wrote
> What issue is bigger than harassment?
The fight that started this rift.
> Why are you defending someone who is repeatedly harassing someone else?
Because of the reasons for the harassment.
> Anyone who does this shit is a pathetic loser, without exception.
That’s ridiculous. You just skipped understanding reasons and judged without context.
> OP does not want this contact.
Yes. But is that really in his best interest? Wanting something doesn’t make it necessarily wise.
> Their father needs to get over himself.
He’s trying to by communicating.
> If he cared about OP, he wouldn't go against his wishes.
He may feel there are deeper issues and want to solve them.
> The father clearly doesn't give a damn about OP, or he would listen to what OP's actions say.
No. He just has a different goal.
> If you need me to be even more exhaustive in explaining this very simple concept, let me know.
Don’t worry. I explained it back for you instead.
the6souls t1_j2elr95 wrote
You're an idiot, and this is a waste of time. No, some fight ten years ago is not a bigger issue than a literal crime.
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