Couch to sleep on?

Submitted by Kmdjr1021 t3_yvl16o in rva

I know it's a hell of a request but it's either this or...idk what I might do😔... I mentally no longer can take it as I know I will not be able to handle this weather, physically with nothing to keep warm. I don't even know how to do these so I'm sorry if I don't come off right but I am a 27 year old male whos going through a rough patch in life(Homeless due to lost job) while I have nobody to fall on at this time.(no parents, adopted as a child in my life by grandparents, whom both passed away) I know all is my fault due to mistakes and wrong choices but if I deserve to die, depressed, alone, miserably mentally and physically, in this cold, then just tell me, so I won't embarrass myself asking for help, like I feel like Im doing, everytime I do it. Never did a hard drug in my life so not homeless due to a drug addiction. Hygiene kept top tier. Not very keen to asking for help due to that I have very high social anxiety (to the point of social panic attacks) but it's just today,I lost everything so I know I won't be able to survive out there with nothing(no blankets, nothing). Could someone please be willing to open their door for me? Will just lay down, wont even say a word to you if that's how you like it. Or just some cushion and blankets?? Something?? It's embarrassing but Im begging anybody please...thank you😔🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

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b__reddit t1_iwf32b9 wrote

OP, you don’t deserve to die and I pray that this setback is temporary.

I don’t live in the area, but if nothing comes through go to the ER. I know this isn’t ideal, but it might get you through the night until you can find a better arrangement tomorrow

Edit: Access to ER shelter

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verbalddos t1_iwf3lwk wrote

Where are you currently? I can get you some stuff for the night and we can talk about getting you out of this rut.

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sunnyordie t1_iwf4077 wrote

OP, tough times don’t last, remember the sun will always rise tomorrow. I’m sorry you’re going through this. I know some churches in RVA hand out blankets and warm clothing. May be worth googling

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McFlare92 t1_iwf62se wrote

What size jacket do you wear? Do you need one? I'd be happy to get you one. I've got lots of wool socks too, happy to give you some of those too

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dslongest t1_iwf8lm6 wrote

You don’t deserve to die! Your situation is not a reflection of you as a person. While I am not in a position to help you, I hope the resources shared on this post make a difference for your situation! Sending you prayers and good intentions.

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Top-Painting-1301 t1_iwfd8dj wrote

OP, I know it’s late. Hoping you found somewhere safe and warm for the night. Here’s a link to the Greater Richmond Street Sheet, which lists some good resources for shelter, care and meals.

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jennbo t1_iwfgi9v wrote

Hey are you still out in the cold DM me if so

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DannyMeehan t1_iwfqwo6 wrote

Replying to Kmdjr1021 (#532,477)

It’s open any night the weather is below 40.

There is also an overnight shelter at 700 Dinwiddie that is open warm or cold. I think you have to line up around 2:30 pm or 3 pm. They even give you dinner and have showers.

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DannyMeehan t1_iwfrfka wrote

Replying to Kmdjr1021 (#532,477)

Also the fastest way to get homeless services in Richmond is through the Homeless Point of Entry. You can call them or show up there with your ID.

https://www.homelessshelterdirectory.org/shelter/va_commonwealth-catholic-charities-homeless-point-of-entry

“Homeless Point of Entry is the starting point for anyone who is homeless and in need of shelter, case management, and related services. This free program helps clients achieve self-sufficiency and gain permanent housing. Staff works directly with area emergency shelters to fill available beds in greater Richmond.

When you come to Homeless Point of Entry, please bring:

  1. ID.
  2. Documentation regarding your homelessness.”
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DannyMeehan t1_iwg7bzt wrote

Replying to [deleted] (#534,326)

It just means anything you have about yourself that will help them provide services, like disabilities, etc. it’s meant to help and not to disqualify the individual. All homeless services run through the point of entry. Instead of the individual having to figure out where to get help it’s one central number or location they can contact to access everything.

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PerlinLioness t1_iwg9ig5 wrote

OP can you please share your clothing size? Shoe size? I am not able to offer a place to stay, but I can find some things to help make life a little easier while you get back on your feet.

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Odd_Invite_5528 t1_iwgb76b wrote

This guy has been making these requests for years on this subreddit

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retrohaxgod t1_iwghioi wrote

The VA gone wild post from 2 years ago makes this sketchy IMO

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wil_dogg t1_iwgorey wrote

Replying to DudeManBo1t (#534,502)

Some homeless people have food stamps and some immigrants have work authorization so just maybe the homeless people know what is what and you are wearing your privilege on your sleeve?

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DudeManBo1t t1_iwgzky4 wrote

Replying to wil_dogg (#535,859)

Or maybe I figured if you were homeless and in need of help you should get it? But go ahead and act like a pretentious jackass behind your monitor.Thanks for being so helpful with your pertinent information

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pocketdare t1_iwh5jve wrote

Replying to Odd_Invite_5528 (#534,945)

Well this just sent me down a rabbit hole of like 6 pages of this guys history. My sense is that he's probably legit. Seems like he bounces around between a car, maybe a cheap hotel, other unknown. Occasionally does ask for help like a meal but doesn't look like anything outlandish. And also appears to spend free time watching sports and surfing Reddit so must have access to a TV and computer - probably public. Occasionally seems to fall for money scams. I honestly don't think this dude is a grifter but I still wouldn't trust someone I hadn't met with space in my home.

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