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Squigglepig52 t1_isfn11j wrote

Reply to comment by Whatislife287 in TIFU by opting out of having a shower with my girl who’s on her 🩸… by Miser-Mike

And he wasn't in the mood for a shared shower. Guys are allowed to not want to have sex, or to not get the hint.

I mean, personally? Sex or not, I'd turn down that experience. Shower sex isn't fun, and for me, neither is sharing a shower or tub.

Seems like a double standard to be angry because dude wasn't thinking about sex on demand.

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Kat1eQueen t1_isfp7vd wrote

> I do admit I had a flash-forward of standing in reddish water and not being happy about that also though.

OP literally said this, he clearly has no fucking clue how periods work and it heavily looks like he is disgusted by normal shit. Also the person you replied to mentioned that sex might have been a possibility on the side, yet you somehow made your entire comment based solely on that.

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Squigglepig52 t1_isfyq1e wrote

dude's squeamishness was the last thing he mentioned, and it was what he said at teh end of his GF giving him shit. Yet, somehow, you avoid the fact she was angry before he said a word, and make it all about the blood.

She was angry when she came out, she "had one in the clip". That's what you overlook,because "omg, guys just don't get it!"

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KautiousNupe55 t1_isi5dbj wrote

You're using way too much logic in your comments Squiggle. That's why all of your comments are being down voted, smh. Kudos to you for keeping it respectful and on topic and for not taking the bate of the strawman arguments being lobbed at you.

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Whatislife287 t1_isg19gj wrote

I’m sure she was angry beforehand and he just was too into himself to notice.

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Squigglepig52 t1_isg1whd wrote

Based on what, exactly?

they are on a lovely vacation, they just went out, had a nice time, and some drinks. Why would she be angry before?

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Whatislife287 t1_isg13u4 wrote

It’s all about communication. He could have expressed that he didn’t want to have sex or take a mutual shower , but instead he made a big deal about a natural bodily function that you cannot control or get rid of and made someone he’s supposed to love feel like shit. He literally said this in his post.

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Squigglepig52 t1_isg2l56 wrote

He literally said "nah", which is a clear refusal.

Then, she came out angry, and claimed it was because of her period - and he literally told her it wasn't the issue.

He didn't actually tell her he didn't want to stand in bloody water, he had a mental image of it. So, he actually did the opposite of making a big deal, he actually said it's not the issue.

It's amazing the contortions you'll do to make this his fault, as opposed to just saying "Dude, she's on her period and cranky. Do what she asks or she'll get pissy"

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Whatislife287 t1_isg5e5j wrote

Tell me you don’t know how women work without telling me you don’t know how women work😂 you literally just said she’ll get pissy because of her period and to just go along with what she wants lol - because that’s healthy

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Squigglepig52 t1_isgmd1r wrote

You should probably learn to read a bit better.

I said that what it seems like you really want to say to the OP. Cater to her because she's on her period.

I never said it's healthy, but it's the only way the OP wasn't going to get shit on in this exchange.

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redwolf587 t1_ishewl6 wrote

If that was the case the title of this TIFU would be "my girlfriend MISUNDERSTOOD why I didn't want to take a shower " not use a lame emoji to reference periods. He's immature.

He's made it clear in this post that he's grossed out (or uneducated) by it.

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