AmargithHuld
AmargithHuld t1_jdx3c2n wrote
Reply to comment by dtShikhaMahajan in Germany is overhauling its immigration rules to bolster a rapidly shrinking workforce by yash13
He likely means ‘get techies from India’.
..I think.
That said, with India’s overpopulation, that might be a good way to redistribute some population.
We do need to diminish the strain we put on the planet, after all.
Going down in global population is actually very much a goal.
AmargithHuld t1_jdfq3om wrote
Really really hate that feeling, though
AmargithHuld t1_jc1cxu6 wrote
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Prefer to first remove the damned rocks, tbh.
AmargithHuld t1_jc1cphe wrote
Reply to comment by Insomnambulant in [Image] "Signs of personal growth" by Butterflies_Books
Also in putting the blame where it belongs, for that matter.
I feel itd be more accurate if they said, your focus shifts to addressing things yourself and getting on with it - and the rest is basically just there.
It does not disappear. Impressing ppl can be nice, as is receiving validation, and not assuming more blame than is yours, by knowing what exactly transpired is pretty useful as well. And excuses can be the explanation you need to see another person’s pov, and get why they did things the way they did em.
It’s just not the crux the way fixing things/focusing is.
AmargithHuld t1_jbim3wq wrote
Reply to comment by chevymonza in Hidden Gem [image] by ChefGirlRD1738
I hear you.
I was «lucky»
I was taken abroad by my husbands promotion, so I only see them when I go back.
About 2 years ago, I made it clear i was no longer interested in seeing my father or his side of the family, so I stopped flying over for Christmas.
Now I only go back for my mom and friends and during an event for her side of the family, where I endure my brothers - for now.
We’ll see how long that lasts.
But honest - it’s lifted a weight off my shoulders in a way I wasnt expecting.
And I finally get to enjoy the Yuletide ❤️
100% recommend ;)
AmargithHuld t1_jbe0keo wrote
Reply to comment by vamanaswk in Hidden Gem [image] by ChefGirlRD1738
And, that’s when I cut him out of my life, your Honor.
I hear ya, though. Took me 5 years and there’s still pressure to ‘make up’.
This shit is never fucking easy.
AmargithHuld t1_jbe0h1b wrote
Reply to Hidden Gem [image] by ChefGirlRD1738
Amen!
Should make a prayer service out of texts like these.
AmargithHuld t1_j8z7eu7 wrote
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It isnt my business until they make it my business and I gotto waste energy dealing with that, then getting back on track after being massively gutpunched and derailed.
That’s the part I avoid, really.
AmargithHuld t1_iwumdml wrote
Reply to comment by Sam1515024 in USB-C will be mandatory for all smart devices sold in India by Sam1515024
The EU enforces a standard, and it spreads to other markets, either coz its more economical for the companies and/or coz other countries have had the same frustrations.
AmargithHuld t1_jdx4gs4 wrote
Reply to comment by bonyponyride in Germany is overhauling its immigration rules to bolster a rapidly shrinking workforce by yash13
The older gen in those countries had german as a second language in school, that helps as well.
But sure, cases throw many for a loop.
I can attest, however, that Russian ‘thinks’ in a very different way than germanic european languages, and they struggle very much with articles, wordplacement (as they have cases for that shit) and the idea of auxiliary verbs.
Source: lived there for a year, and soeak Russian and several germanic languages :)