It started happening a bit about three years ago but now seems to be daily. It's been worse since he's started with a new therapist who seems to be all about validating feelings and self advocating.... which is all great in principal but when you have to live with someone who tells you that your genuine attempts to help them are somehow an attempt to brush their feelings under the carpet, it's really infuriating.
DarkBlueFlame36 OP t1_jed5p4u wrote
Reply to comment by WildlyUninteresting in Me (36F) and husband (35M) in this endless "you're not listening to me" cycle by DarkBlueFlame36
It started happening a bit about three years ago but now seems to be daily. It's been worse since he's started with a new therapist who seems to be all about validating feelings and self advocating.... which is all great in principal but when you have to live with someone who tells you that your genuine attempts to help them are somehow an attempt to brush their feelings under the carpet, it's really infuriating.