ETAVEGAMING
ETAVEGAMING t1_ixmeucc wrote
Reply to LPT Request: How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? by MoonlightPotatoes
Live life with good habits, so a mess doesn’t build up.
ETAVEGAMING t1_iuhnjq4 wrote
Reply to LPT: Set your alarm for 2hrs before you want to wake up, so when you wake up you can go back to sleep by spatchi14
Mine is set 1.5 hours ahead of time and another is set at the right time.
ETAVEGAMING t1_itevp6x wrote
Reply to LPT request: meal ideas that stretch by PutridOil8535
Healthy? Rice and eggs. Unhealthy? Ramen noodles.
Do you have a vehicle? Do doordash for a couple hours.
ETAVEGAMING t1_itepvd4 wrote
Reply to LPT B4 car gig work, divide car value by its life (miles) expectancy left. Add to $MPG for your TRUE costs. by [deleted]
The cost of driving a brand new Kia Rio or similar type vehicle to 200k miles is about 35 cents per mile.
ETAVEGAMING t1_isjg7py wrote
Reply to LPT: If you wake up early and want to sleep in a little longer, wake yourself up in roughly 90 minutes. by ThePurpleSoul70
You could set 2 alarm clocks. 1 that wakes you up 1.5 hours before you would like to wake up and 1 for the exact time that you want to wake up.
ETAVEGAMING t1_ja1c58m wrote
Reply to LPT request: Can anyone give me a couple ideas or things to try, that might alleviate some of the guilt and shame I (28F) feel? by magdeedz
Genuine self-confidence and self-esteem is earned.
For example, let’s say your statement was “I feel really bad that I suck at basketball” while knowing you did not put in the work to be good at basketball. What’s the solution? Practice and study the game of basketball until it is undeniable that you’re good at it. You will have genuine self-confidence and self-esteem in the area of basketball. This same concept applies to EVERYTHING.
If you feel bad about yourself, it is probably well deserved. The trick is perspective.
“This is who I am. I deserve to be miserable. I’ll never be good enough, etc”(a losers way of thinking)
“This is what I did. It’s done. This is who I am RIGHT now. I accept that. This is who I want to be. I’m going to be that. This is who I hurt. I’m going to try my best to correct that. What I can’t fix, I will let go, but I hope the best for everyone”(Winners way of thinking)
This way if thinking was indoctrinated in me throughout my entire childhood of competing in sports and watching inspiring media. I will assume that you will need to have a constant self-awareness and obsession with changing your way of thinking from a ‘losers’ way of thinking to a ‘winners’ way of thinking. You seem to feel deeply about this topic, which is beautiful and I think if you grind out a good way of thinking, you’ll do great.
Cheer up
Edit: Oh, and the most important advice I can give is to never give up. Make this an absolute rule, a principle, part of your identity, whatever you want to label it, that no matter what, you’re going to try again every single time you fall.