Mediumokrahmom
Mediumokrahmom t1_j6pgtv4 wrote
Reply to comment by Swimming-Rough-9514 in How do you get over and forgive yourself for blowing a relationship with the one you deeply love because you weren’t putting in the required effort to grow and maintain it? by Swimming-Rough-9514
No. It isn’t. Plenty of people connect immediately. Chemistry is chemistry. You won’t connect with anyone because you can’t get over her
Mediumokrahmom t1_j6peauf wrote
Reply to comment by Swimming-Rough-9514 in How do you get over and forgive yourself for blowing a relationship with the one you deeply love because you weren’t putting in the required effort to grow and maintain it? by Swimming-Rough-9514
You’re holding her memory on a pedestal. If you compare everyone else to her they’re never going to add up. You knew her better and longer than these people you’re trying to date.
Have you tried talking to someone, a professional about this?
Mediumokrahmom t1_j6p6w1c wrote
Reply to How do you get over and forgive yourself for blowing a relationship with the one you deeply love because you weren’t putting in the required effort to grow and maintain it? by Swimming-Rough-9514
You acknowledge to yourself where you fell short, you actively work towards being better, and you realize that if you truly loved the person you would’ve put the effort in.
Mediumokrahmom t1_itww3rh wrote
I love this bag so much, but I love the happiness you exuded talking about it on Imgur even more 😭❤️
Mediumokrahmom t1_j6pjmb6 wrote
Reply to comment by Swimming-Rough-9514 in How do you get over and forgive yourself for blowing a relationship with the one you deeply love because you weren’t putting in the required effort to grow and maintain it? by Swimming-Rough-9514
It’s been a year. I’m not saying it’s easy, but it has to be done.
Perhaps a therapist can help you. You’ve been doing this on your own and can’t get over her. I’ve been there. I know it’s hard not to beat yourself up, but you have to do it for yourself