WiseChoices

WiseChoices t1_jadenq9 wrote

I agree! There's no reason to strip either partner of all of their power and security. And money is power.

Splitting it into separate accounts holds each one accountable for their spending. The evidence will be clear. No he said, she said.

I think it would mean a more peaceful choice.

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WiseChoices t1_ja3thq8 wrote

Congratulations on your little one!

I am so glad for you both.

I am sorry that Dad has decided to abandon you and that he will miss out on fathering, which is one of life's greatest treasures.

If you hold him financially responsible you may be able to take this precious, foundational time with your child. And maybe you can share this with your family or his.

Working from home isn't a complete solution, but I hope you find the answers that you need.

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WiseChoices t1_j5m5qqw wrote

We recently had tremendous storms and power was out for more than a day. We used a string of solar lights on the coffee table to make the room feel better.

They lasted for hours, and then we just went to bed.

We use them on the stairs and porch outside. They last for years.

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