a proper redditor you mean xD

edit: not proper, cultured is the right word

yeah, that's fair

I didn't know i had to do that before I posted😭

It popped into my head and i thought, "whoa i could post this"

I'm not kidding, i really didn't know. i haven't been using reddit for a long time and i don't check sub history. "If you look at my posts, you'll know that I don't post often either" !!. I'm not karma farming. I comment pretty often and that is all. This popped into my head and I posted.

edit: you make a fair point but my post history should say otherwise, no?

eyo, I had no idea. I thought about this when I was putting my socks on yesterday.

you sound like you've got a lot of experience with this

spitting facts

much worse, I imagine

See I'm not saying hiding it is right. I'm saying it's not something you randomly tell someone when you know it could possibly fuck up the relationship which is also exactly what it did when he told her. Before someone says he should've told her at the start, it's not something you start off a relationship with is it? Would you tell someone that when you're starting a relationship? Especially when it's something that you're not proud of.

>How could you be alone multiple times with past partners and think it was okay”

hon, this is obsessive behaviour and not okay on her part. You can't be in their company anymore? You haven't done anything with them, you've been loyal to her. This isn't something you tell a partner out of the blue. She needs to understand that.