anonymous_plus_ultra

anonymous_plus_ultra OP t1_j1ok25b wrote

and yep thats exactly what im trying to avoid i want to survive but be paid fairly for what i do cause for all introverts, the lowballed and tricked, my family , and for myself who gave immense effort mentally and emotionally to go throeugh winning not for some shit salary but one that truly exemplifies my lifes work throughout many years

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anonymous_plus_ultra OP t1_j1ojlv2 wrote

yea me too i just like hearing the thoughts and inouts for the chance that someone may cover ground i have not considered to tread on this comment section is filled with good input imo

especially with new grads and the economy and looming politics money talk is more important than ever especially in deciding if you truly to chance a family or ingrained living here cause if economy colapses in nj well lets just say i think itll be as bad as the empty midwest in america

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anonymous_plus_ultra OP t1_j1oj6o9 wrote

sad thing is i like it here i love being next to nyc and the attractions especially lincoln square imax thanks to alist i go there basically every other weekend for free with my ezpass covered by parents(i dont abuse it btw i drive toll free for work)

this place of an armpit is home and ofc life is uncertain but hopefully i can make it or survive elsewhere before life is extinct from this place due to poverty

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anonymous_plus_ultra OP t1_j1oixms wrote

@largead if you see this not sure if u got banneed or blcoked but this goes for everyone again my opinion dont kill plz

i believe like my father in hard work and if you stagnate or perform like everyone else well you basically leave it to chance/equal treatment to massive amts of ppl which means more things will affect you basically i need to reach for higher not for greed but to survive against inflation, costs, competition, and retirement

economically that is my sentiment on the matter i know there will be ppl that make more but if i can just work harder to survive without letting my family down and to support them too thats all i need

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anonymous_plus_ultra OP t1_j1ocmx7 wrote

follow up but i want take home to be 5k a month some calculators say i need 84k or 42$/hr to get that

but my math says i need a tiny bit over 76k

What do you think?

and whats the likelihood ill get that? im probably going to over shoot slightly to contest it but i dont know how much either.

th is an offer i got (kinda want to be above median in jersey but thats also all over the place)

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