candyghost

candyghost OP t1_j9rey6h wrote

You know what's really wild? On my return commute this evening, I passed a car with the exact make, model and color as this morning's. I took the plate number, just in case. Not planning on doing anything with it, just storing it.

Edit: These are good suggestions, thank you. I don't think it's worth the time spent to file a police report, I think it would be a lot of stress for zero outcome. But it's good to know what my resources are in the area.

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candyghost OP t1_j9q13vj wrote

Yes, you're missing the point where if I waited for every single car to come to a complete stop, I would never cross because they DON'T STOP.

Also, I never said I was crossing blindly? I see car. Car sees me. Car doesn't stop. I went to preschool you guys, I'm not fucking stupid, but it's sure real nice of y'all to imply I am. :)

Edit: And--not that this matters to you trolls or these drivers--but I am not legally obligated as a pedestrian to wait for a car to stop at the stop sign. They are, however, obligated to wait for me.

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candyghost OP t1_j9pujfl wrote

It really isn’t normal and certainly ought not to be. I have lived all around New York City for many years in places like Harlem, Union Square, Fort Greene, Gowanus, etc and never have I experienced anything like this. It’s dangerous and lame to shrug this off.

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candyghost OP t1_j9prtwf wrote

Assess the situation. Get a different perspective. Determine if it is clear that I had right of way. Try and make out his license plate. Report the infraction, for whatever that is worth.

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> Just let it go and go on with your life.

In another comment I mention how this is the third time in a single month this has happened to me. So no, I'm not going on with my life. I deserve to not feel like drivers are trying to murder me when I go to my job or carry groceries home.

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candyghost OP t1_j9pqm4w wrote

I'm actually considering making a video compilation of cars running stop signs to send to the City Council and promote awareness. Unfortunately, this is really the last thing I want to spend my precious little spare time on, but I have the means and the motivation to do so...

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candyghost OP t1_j9p94b7 wrote

I wish we could all just blame it on Amy, but sadly all three times I have been in crosswalks and someone blew a stop sign ***this month alone***, the perpetrators have been white males. (I'm not interested in starting a discussion on demographics and crime rates--just my anecdotal observation.)

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