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itsaboutpasta t1_j6hx02j wrote
Reply to comment by letsseeitmore in Living Cost by checkingtheprob5
Agreed. I started off - on my own - with $60k but that’s when you could find a decent apartment in the northern suburbs for less than $1500/mo. I had car/student loans and was basically paycheck to paycheck and had no savings. These days with housing as expensive as it is, there’s really no margin for error or extravagance.
itsaboutpasta t1_j61jzcu wrote
Reply to Which intersection do you despise? by Flashinglights0101
Clark traffic circle - specifically the left turn to get onto Central Ave from the middle of the circle. There’s 2 left turn lanes, but only one (in the middle) takes you to Central Ave; the leftmost one brings you back around the circle. Like 95% of the cars in the leftmost one will cut you off under the bridge so they can get onto Central Ave. Its so dangerous and so predictable but it’s been like a decade and no one has done anything about it.
itsaboutpasta t1_j5g3zjl wrote
For $500 a month (I’m assuming you meant monthly), that better include property taxes, otherwise before you even pay principal and interest, you’re probably going to be paying at least $1k a month. Most of the properties in our budget that I see on Zillow are HOA townhouses/condos, and the expenses the fees cover are never worth it. Unless you plan on staying for 15+ years, I’d think twice about buying into a community with HOA fees that high. I certainly wouldn’t want to buy it from you.
itsaboutpasta t1_j2b3boj wrote
Reply to hi all, my nj family care kicks in 1/2023. I just started a new job at 18/hr last week. After 3 months at work they will offer me health insurance. I have no dependants and am a single female home owner. I don't think I'll be able to afford my house bills if I was to accept my jobs health insurance by catscatscatsohmy
The last thing you want to do is take benefits you no longer qualify for due to your increase in income. You could be liable to reimburse the state for that, amongst other things. You should be proactive and reach out when you start your job. You may not qualify anymore but you could possibly qualify for a subsidy to buy insurance on the marketplace, and the loss of Medicaid could be a qualifying event to do so outside of open enrollment.
itsaboutpasta t1_j1u0vpt wrote
Reply to comment by ultra_violetttttt in Why are NJ doctors, especially those in family medicine all joining for-profit, multi-specialty medical groups? Those groups do are deteriorating the good doctor and patient communication/relationship that use to exist. by Eastcoastpal
We tried an OBGYN and a primary care doc. So not the hospital itself but they have all these providers in their network. I thought that would mean something for the quality of care but both providers were terrible at patient care and office management - like you’d call one and lines were forwarded to the doc’s personal cell, which was never answered, or the office would be closed when you had an appointment and no one bothered to call in advance to reschedule. Patient care itself was unacceptable - test results wouldn’t go up on the portal and bedside manner was completely inappropriate.
itsaboutpasta t1_j1syj89 wrote
Reply to comment by lost_in_life_34 in Why are NJ doctors, especially those in family medicine all joining for-profit, multi-specialty medical groups? Those groups do are deteriorating the good doctor and patient communication/relationship that use to exist. by Eastcoastpal
I’ve seen the good and the bad when it comes to large medical practices and agree I don’t see a problem if they do it well. The more convenient and accessible healthcare is, the more likely people are to seek it out before things get too bad.
Hackensack Meridian is a joke - the providers we’ve seen there have been awful and the “portal” is non-existent. Customer service has also been lacking when I’ve complained.
I’ve certainly had my issues with Summit Health over the years but I’ve never doubted the care I get through them. If an issue comes up where I need a specialist, they’ve connected me directly to their offices and I don’t lift a finger til they call to make an appointment. I can also make appointments and ask questions thru the portal and get doctor’s notes online.
itsaboutpasta t1_j1dzks2 wrote
Reply to comment by enokeenu in RIP To Anyone Travelling Out of Hoboken by Castor_and_Pollux123
Seems like it doesn't take much to flood in Hoboken. But yeah, I was expecting torrential downpours last night and this AM, but from Newark down to Perth Amboy last night, it was nothing.
itsaboutpasta t1_j0ebmxr wrote
It seemed every road in downtown Newark was closed this morning for construction. I don’t know who thought it was a great idea to do the work during rush hour but I wish diarrhea upon them.
itsaboutpasta t1_ixczpf9 wrote
Reply to Would I get in trouble for taking a dog without a carrier on NJ transit? by kn1ght-of-heart
From the NJT website - “Only service animals accompanying customers with disabilities or their trainers, police dogs, and small pets in carry-on travel cages are allowed on-board NJ TRANSIT trains, buses and light rail vehicles”
If it’s you’re only way home and you don’t have a carrier, guess you’re gonna have to do what you have to do. But I have seen conductors chew out passengers who did not have their dogs in the proper carriers and threaten that they have to get off at the next stop. So you’d basically be rolling the dice if it may happen to you. And you’d be asking for trouble on a crowded train so test your luck during off peak hours.
itsaboutpasta t1_iug8ss8 wrote
Reply to comment by chrisms150 in When I see families trick or treating on the Sunday before Halloween by TimSPC
You gonna drop your address…….? Full size candy bar houses were the ultimate trick or treat spot growing up.
itsaboutpasta t1_iug0m5w wrote
Reply to comment by alissa2579 in When I see families trick or treating on the Sunday before Halloween by TimSPC
I’ve heard some stores have already cleared out Halloween candy and replaced with Christmas candy. My old tradition was to go on 11/1 for all the discount candy but these days I guess I should have gone a week ago!
itsaboutpasta t1_iufvi9k wrote
618 in Freehold is gorgeous. Also down that way is Knob Hill in Manalapan. If you use Facebook, the NJ private bride group is really helpful for all wedding planning needs!
itsaboutpasta t1_iufvapq wrote
I’m only in my 30s but i get very “when I was a kid…” and upset about how Halloween is now like a month long event. Why are there Trunk or Treats a week before Halloween? How can a town just change the holiday and force trick or treating on a weekend because it’s more convenient? And a very safe suburb next to me has a curfew in place tomorrow night starting at 7pm, unless you’re accompanied by an adult. Now if you’ll excuse me there’s some kids I have to tell to get off my lawn 😂
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Reply to comment by fluxural in Is it just me or is like 100% more people commuting this week vs before by Tasty-Flan6767
When we had to go back in person I set my hours from 8:30-4:30 thinking I could “beat” traffic. I leave at 7:30 and I’m lucky to even be in my garage at 8:30 these days. Driving home isn’t much better. But I don’t know if it would make a difference to change my hours since even when I leave to go home after 5, traffic’s just as bad.
itsaboutpasta t1_itsoxs9 wrote
Yesterday and today it took over an hour to go 22 miles. I’ve chalked it up to crappy weather - there were so many accidents yesterday morning and today you couldn’t see shit.
itsaboutpasta t1_j6i4rms wrote
Reply to Favorite Tacos in/around Perth Amboy by ChocolatePleepleus
Sabor a Mexico has a great special on Mondays for birria tacos; we’ve tried a couple in town and theirs are the best (plus all the sauces you get). Rico Taco Mex is also delicious but I recommend picking up in person; delivery app experiences have been mixed. Los Gueros is a chain but I’ve only enjoyed eating from this location and their taco Tuesday special can’t be beat. Get their salsa verde and an order of nachos too!