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rlpw t1_jaerrtt wrote

Often universities and think tanks offer talks that are open to the public. They’re also free and sometimes have a reception. Those are good networking events to meet other likeminded professionals.

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rlpw t1_j9v4py1 wrote

The commenter above mentioned STEM PhD industry salaries are like 200k. Perhaps specific stem fields although most folks don’t consider social science a stem field despite science being in the name. Also the titles of positions can be confusing and arbitrary - ie a “research associate” for some organizations require a PhD while others require at least a bachelors.

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rlpw t1_j9v00ig wrote

I did some grading/work yesterday at a cafe while I waited for my bike to get fixed two doors down. The person next to me was in a meeting the entire time. Granted, they were using headphones with a mic - it was still like sitting next to someone talking on the phone.

I suppose it’s not different than sitting next to two people talking so idk

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rlpw t1_j9urs5w wrote

My PhD is in a social science. I knew what the prospects were going in sorta. I say sorta because the choice to get a PhD wasn’t entirely based on the job market - it was based on actual interest and I knew I wasn’t going to be paying for it. But it’s still a bit disappointing when going about looking for work or seeing these salaries.

I saw a few positions targeting just masters level experience and explicitly stated they won’t hire a PhD. At the same time I saw phds hiding their phds to get work. 😩

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rlpw t1_j6121az wrote

I wonder what folks expectations are for friends. Like are you high involvement and expect to text everyday and get a response immediately? Or do you just wanna get invited to the occasional house party?

I’m 40, gay married with two dogs. I moved here circa 2016 (but also was born and raised here). I feel like there’s always something to go to and most of the time we’re RSVPing regrets. Maybe the gay social circles are different.

Also I see enough washingtonianprob memes about dating here as a straight woman to know I’d have no hope.

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rlpw t1_j53jngb wrote

I had a bone marrow transplant and was an “in-out patient” or whatever they called it for two months. I stayed in a residential apartment owned by the hospital for two months. I had appointments everyday. Depending on my labs, I’d get whatever transfusion I needed. My daily appts we’re anywhere from 1 hour to 5. Staying in the residential apartment meant not staying in a hospital room with whatever lights. I was able to cook food with my car giver and feel somewhat normal. And I just walked over to my appt each day. I also walked rounds around the hospital to get steps in.

One taken for granted benefit was the air filtration. Air was supposedly sucked out of the building to help those (most) of us who were immunocompromised. If it’s just you living in the van I don’t think it’s an issue. I’d it were me, I’d be concerned about how clean things were.

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rlpw t1_j3o2q43 wrote

Driving is included in “transit” but I assume you mean “mass” and “micro-mobility” transit. Driving is definitely not equitable when you consider the mounting costs, regulations, and responsibilities that driving entails.

Currently mass- and micro-transit are not equitable because of lack of access and emphasis on the needed infrastructure, much of which is caused by the car-centric culture that developed in the US for a myriad of reasons.

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rlpw t1_j3m27dk wrote

With the way you framed and included negative affect in your original post - I’d argue you don’t separate your opinion from your argument.

You’re frustrated with “inconvenience” while cyclists and pedestrians are “frustrated” with lack of safety and non-car transit options.

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rlpw t1_j3lyg1c wrote

It’s not small minded - it’s “reality.” Imagine everyone owning a car in dc. Imagine all the new apartments requiring an additional parking garage or even an underground parking garage. Imagine all the row homes that are turned into condos and each owner parking their car on the street or families owning 3 cars and occupying street parking on a block.

Now imagine all those people transiting to work with all the people from MD and B VA as well.

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