Boundaries are if you do XYorZ I will remove myself from the situation. Controlling is YOU can’t do XYZ or I’ll be mad/punish you. The consequence of boundaries is loss of access so the person behaving poorly can’t continue to harm the person setting the boundary
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Reply to How to differentiate boundaries from controlling behaviour? by LeaguePlus5679
Boundaries are if you do XYorZ I will remove myself from the situation. Controlling is YOU can’t do XYZ or I’ll be mad/punish you. The consequence of boundaries is loss of access so the person behaving poorly can’t continue to harm the person setting the boundary