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t1_j9dt8wr wrote

Just brought up what happened. What I told them was getting back to me, but with incorrect additions. Told them what I heard was from our mutual friend who they told earlier that day.

Asked if we could keep the conversation information private, get a clean slate and move past this and continue our fantastic work relationship.

Nothing accusatory, just facts. Receipts ready if needed. Thankfully we were on the same page.

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t1_j9bvbos wrote

Working exclusively with co worker on tons of projects. We got to know each other well. During lunch I dropped my guard, we shared a few personal items.

Later found out we run in similar friends groups, I was unaware until my phone popped off with tons of texts from a certain person in this group. Was not a great convo…it became a game of telephone booth with multiple people sharing a worse and worse version of the comment (which was exclusively about me).

Lesson learned. I keep everyone at arms length. No questions.

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