BouncyDingo_7112

BouncyDingo_7112 t1_ja5qolq wrote

I grew up with someone who was hard of hearing. My father lost 80% of hearing in one ear and about 20% of hearing in his other ear when he was in his 40s. I also have a friend who started losing her hearing when she was in her mid-30s due to a lifetime of loud rock music. My advice would be to call someone who’s hard of hearing by their name or get their attention with your hand before starting your sentence if they haven’t been looking at you. Also if you are one of those who tend to mumble or speak very fast, you will need to slow down a bit and enunciate your words to help them out. Don’t go “I’m speaking to a moron” speed, just slow down to what is considered an average pace. Practicing patience will also make everything go better. As annoying as it might be to adjust your speech pattern around them I can guarantee you it’s so much more frustrating for the person who can’t hear very well.

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BouncyDingo_7112 t1_ja12ru1 wrote

OP describes the building as a “new build luxury apartment complex with all the amenities”. I’m not a real estate expert but I don’t understand how something could be listed as “luxury” and “with all the amenities” without having washer/dryer hook-ups. It almost sounds like it should have the hook-ups and OP just hasn’t bought a washer/dryer pair yet. But I do agree with others that OP should purchase one of those small countertop washers that drain into the sink or bathtub.

Edit: apparently I’ve completely misread that that they were moving from a new build luxury apartment complex with all the amenities. Hopefully OP did not edit it without telling us. Not sure how I misread that like 4 different times but apparently I did. I’m still leaving this up because I still think it might be beneficial if they buy one of those small countertop washers, either a plug-in or completely manual, depending on what might be allowed in their new complex.

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BouncyDingo_7112 t1_j92ywx3 wrote

Right. And that’s cool because you guys are open about it. But this guy wants to sneakily manipulate the girl into getting something he wants so he can finish it off instead of literally just having a simple conversation. Someone who would think this is funny to do on dates has got to be somewhere on the narcissistic spectrum.

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BouncyDingo_7112 t1_j5i0wmb wrote

Not a good tip. Like someone else said cars could’ve changed up to five times before you came back. Meaning the photos of the cars you took when you walked away is not the one that dinged you. It could have been the second or third car that parked next to you since then. But you’re going to call in and give the information of the innocent guy who happened to be there when you parked & walked away.

A better LPT would be if you have the opportunity to park at the far end of the parking lot where there are very few cars to ding you. And don’t be that person who unnecessarily straddles two different spots.

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