Yeah we both have full access to each other’s stuff. He didn’t “show me” but he opened his texts in front of me and didn’t try to hide it (we text around each other all the time, no hiding)

Oh yeah I have total faith in the man. He’s amazing and completely trustworthy. It’s the woman that bothers me, and it makes me feel disrespected.

We talk about everything so we’ve already discussed it, I told him it seems like she’s got a crush and it makes me uncomfortable and I hope she deals with it appropriately. He agreed and said he’d let me know if anything changes or escalates.

I wanted to check in to see if I’m overreacting though. I personally wouldn’t send random sunset photos to friends but maybe that’s common! I dunno!

Oh and nothing was said just the photo

Yeah that’s what I thought lol 😂 I send stuff like that to my husband, my mom, and my little bro, and MAYBE my best gal friend.

It was honestly average at best - grainy, kind of … bad overall, definitely not text worthy imo.

But I’m a photographer so maybe I’m being a jerk. 😂 trying to be self aware too!!

He said “nice” he doesn’t encourage her. I talked to him about it and he was not defensive at all. I think he recognizes why it’s weird, but also we “need” her for some projects and in general she’s a nice person, but I do think she’s developed a crush, and he agreed that’s possible and will keep tabs on it and shut it down if it gets too weird.

Text, they only text every 2-3 weeks. I wonder if she’s just socially awkward. I’m not sure.