Perfect!

Absolutely We always want to make sure we are making a good choice. Good luck

Do not~

Breaking the cycle means letting it go. Sending anything to him will give him satisfaction. You will not get closure, the last word or a gotcha last word.

You should get some professional help to help you deal with letting go and breaking the cycle.

Do not respond and when he shows up next time tell your H to slam the door in his face. No texts, emails, or calls.

Never understood the love. There are so many better.

Because it is your private issues with your wife. This is something between you and her. She doesn't want her business all over town with people knowing what's going on behind closed doors.

Think of it this way, if you couldn't have sex with her because your penis didn't work, would you want her sharing it with anyone who would listen?

Maybe that way you can understand

If not you are being purposely obtuse.

STOP talking about your issues with people.

IT doesnt make it ok because you told her that you spoke to all these people. Trying to use that as a justification is ridiculous. You want a compromise, stop talking to everyone she knows about your issues.

Get a counselor if you want to talk about her.

It's so impossible for me to believe that you can not see an issue here. Almost narcissistic.

I had completely forgot about the situation

NO, you didnt

Seems that you love the drama. Like you cant get enough of the disrespect and the lies. You just keep going back for more.

The cycle will continue with your child unfortunately.

The only person you should be angry at is yourself. He has shown his true colors for 5 years. YOU keep making the choice to stay with him, get back with him, believe him, trust him etc. WTF up. Stop blaming your situation on him. This is all your choice. However you child has no choice and this is what you are teaching them.

Try harder

Central

Why?

Usually lack of intimacy And it sexual disfunction

take off those glasses

YOUR bf is just as bad as his friend.

he allowed his friend to treat you like that

making this all about the other couple says a lot about your reality meter.

He is going to be in the wedding of the guy who harassed you.

All this at 19!

your are 20 leave the madness

6 months is VERY short term.

It may not have had any effect on your relationship at this point but the probability is high that it will eventually.

You are strong and smart!

So much more so than so many other young women we see here.

Good for you.

Well, when you are alone you have no choice.

And while you cook and clean what will be his fair share?

If you feel comfortable removing one person from the group go for it.

If it didn't feel off to you, you wouldn't be asking.

I think it's in bad taste but it doesn't seem to be to you and your fi

3 years! This is who he is! How he is and how he will be.

Do you want to be in a long-distance relationship seeing each other a few days a year for the rest of your life?

Thats what is going to happen. At 27 and a higher education you should be fully aware of that. Since your obviously aren't it's scary/

I am so confused as to why you are friends with her to begin with.

And if you dont want to invite her dont, but be prepared for the hurt and pushback from other friends. I mean im closer with some than others in my group, but i would never leave one person out. Especially when they have no idea as to why because you hang out with her on the regular.

There is no advice about the whole situation. Its crazy.

Nothing you can do will change the fear her parents have. You guys blew that chance with the immature behavior

So, you met 1 time, and she wants to move 1000 miles away to another country to be with you? And you think this is normal? And you think her parents are wrong? Holy crap not to bright.

We see here daily that women carry most of the load in household duties. Some start out liking to play house, some feel guilted, some make excuses etc.\

Do NOT even begin that cycle.

Ok got it

Well, since he was just positive he should know that he is ok for a while

Does he act like a hypocrite in other areas as well?

Right and you said even if he had tested and was positive you would have done the exact same thing. So, I am confused as to what difference it made I'd he tested or not

If he was sick and didnt test himself then you should have removed yourself from contact with him. If you are saying you wouldnt have done that anyway, whats your point?