I came in to say we'd all rather game than clean (more or less) but he still needs to help you.

But then I got to the point where you said he yells at his friends while gaming with them, and is that what you really want? If he'll yell at them over a game he'll likely yell at you and, if you have them, your kids for equally stupid reasons.

Edit: you said he gets pissed, not that he yells. Still applies.

This MFer is married.

Sounds like you're the other woman.

Your wife is acting pretty selfishly considering your daughter is used to her name. She's not property.

Ocean? What ocean?

Sorry, now that the obligatory King of the Hill reference is out of the way, you have every right to experience your dad's culture, and your mom has no business stopping you. If it causes problems in your relationship with her, that's 100% on her because she's being bull-headed and ridiculous.

There's good news here. After 8 years, he's still your BF and not your husband.

No, it's definitely a big dick.

This is what happens when a glass scale stops trying to hold itself in to impress a lady scale.