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tillytubeworm t1_j9qmfq6 wrote

Reply to comment by resorcinarene in The way your BF/GF speaks to his/her mom/dad will be the very similar to the way he speaks to you in marriage. by stepneo1

Equivocating saying someone would do something to someone actually doing something is just a fallacy.

In a healthy relationship people could very easily be willing to do something like this, maybe not all the time, but willing to. Also in a healthy relationship this would not be a reasonable ask, and therefore wouldn’t be an ask from someone who equally would want the betterment of someone willing to do that, meaning that although the will is there, this probably wouldn’t happen except on rare occasions that it’s reasonable and unasked as a fun little surprise.

Try not to be so negative about things man.

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Quiet-Shallot3290 t1_j9racgk wrote

Yeah. I mean I have good friends who would take a bullet for me. I'm a good friend because I would never ask them to, and vice versa.

I think really did a great job of explaining this.

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