Submitted by Wise-Injury-3045 t3_z8vmwg in relationship_advice
Okay, so I have a very non-interesting rather immature issue with my(F27) boyfriend(M28). I'm honestly considering ending the relationship because I'm unsure if I can take this anymore. We have big arguments over the smallest things. For example; the other day we just got in the car and wanted to grab food. I was deleting 2 emails on my phone and asked him if he was looking for where to eat. He said "yes" and I replied, "I'm gonna start looking too". He looks over and says
Him: "that doesn't look like you're searching"
Me: "I didn't say I was, I said I'm gonna start soon"
And then started a whole argument about who said what and basically ruined our day. I feel really disconnected when he argues about these things. I think the conversation should have stopped when I said there was a misunderstanding instead of him pushing what I said. I've tried to talk to him about it but he doesn't want to apologize and is stubborn about the fact that I'm mistaken about what I said. It's just so annoying I have to deal with these things that really shouldn't matter.
Should I stay and work on it or move on?
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