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ellgautu OP t1_j2ea04o wrote

Reply to comment by A2Z-THC in (20f) (22m) My boyfriend masturbated to the girl he said he picked me over by ellgautu

This is the only issue that shows our age and youth, plenty of couples are open and have candid conversations about their past. The issue isn’t masturbation itself or having feelings for her, it was lying to me.

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A2Z-THC t1_j2eacpy wrote

I dont think those are productive conversations to have somethings are better left unanswered but thats just my opinion. If you guys get in a fight and have sex later, do you wonder if he thinking of her instead of you? I just think those conversations dont get forgotten and if you guys stay together sometimes they get dragged out years later.

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ellgautu OP t1_j2eat79 wrote

That’s fair, we’re not the type of couple that fights and then has sex. We have both expressed that we don’t want it to be used as a bandaid. But, I think you’re right, I do think that we shouldn’t have talked about it but I unfortunately cannot rewrite the past. Thank you for the advice!! If you have any more, please feel free to share

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