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A2Z-THC t1_j2eacpy wrote

Reply to comment by ellgautu in (20f) (22m) My boyfriend masturbated to the girl he said he picked me over by ellgautu

I dont think those are productive conversations to have somethings are better left unanswered but thats just my opinion. If you guys get in a fight and have sex later, do you wonder if he thinking of her instead of you? I just think those conversations dont get forgotten and if you guys stay together sometimes they get dragged out years later.

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ellgautu OP t1_j2eat79 wrote

That’s fair, we’re not the type of couple that fights and then has sex. We have both expressed that we don’t want it to be used as a bandaid. But, I think you’re right, I do think that we shouldn’t have talked about it but I unfortunately cannot rewrite the past. Thank you for the advice!! If you have any more, please feel free to share

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