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Present-Ad-3819 t1_j2ech3n wrote

Reply to comment by ellgautu in (20f) (22m) My boyfriend masturbated to the girl he said he picked me over by ellgautu

Ah alright. Just be cautious. Because if he even downplayed it for friends it might be a lot worse.

Im only saying this because of the part where he had to talk it out with two of his friends. I fell as if someone would do that if they were planning on ending a relationship for another person.

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ellgautu OP t1_j2ecup3 wrote

I’m sorry, let me clarify, I am the one who talked to his (our) friends. I asked them if they knew anything about how he was feeling for her at the time and that’s what they said. What I meant was that he downplayed his emotions and feelings for her to them by saying “it’s was only infatuation and it was only for like two weeks” which now it seems he was either lying to himself on or idk what

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Present-Ad-3819 t1_j2ed8co wrote

Ohhh that makes more sense. Infatuation can turn into feelings or obsession. Hopefully it just dies out. Just keep an eye on that infatuation of his so that the wrong feelings don’t die out.

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