ellgautu OP t1_j2ecup3 wrote on December 31, 2022 at 5:13 PM

Reply to comment by Present-Ad-3819 in (20f) (22m) My boyfriend masturbated to the girl he said he picked me over by ellgautu

I’m sorry, let me clarify, I am the one who talked to his (our) friends. I asked them if they knew anything about how he was feeling for her at the time and that’s what they said. What I meant was that he downplayed his emotions and feelings for her to them by saying “it’s was only infatuation and it was only for like two weeks” which now it seems he was either lying to himself on or idk what

Present-Ad-3819 t1_j2ed8co wrote on December 31, 2022 at 5:16 PM

Ohhh that makes more sense. Infatuation can turn into feelings or obsession. Hopefully it just dies out. Just keep an eye on that infatuation of his so that the wrong feelings don’t die out.

ellgautu OP t1_j2edev2 wrote on December 31, 2022 at 5:17 PM

Will do lol

Present-Ad-3819 t1_j2ediwf wrote on December 31, 2022 at 5:18 PM

I’m sorry if that was coming off to strong or harsh

ellgautu OP t1_j2edlux wrote on December 31, 2022 at 5:18 PM

It didn’t at all!! I truly appreciate the advice!!