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Dawgy66 t1_jdls82x wrote
This happened before you started dating your bf so how would you know they were related? I understand your bf getting upset but he has a past just like everyone else does.
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Myrmodus t1_jdlskul wrote
You’ve done nothing wrong besides waiting to tell him and telling him in a place where he could react irrationally. If you told him after that first realization and in private, he could have processed it by now. You and Ryan keeping it secret makes it seem like that was more meaningful than a one night stand.
But the fact you slept with someone before your boyfriend isn’t a FU, it’s totally normal. If that’s his hang up here he needs to grow up.
Dawgy66 t1_jdlssb3 wrote
That's possible but it's an awkward situation for anyone to be in. I hope things work out for you and your bf
OkVolume1 t1_jdlsup6 wrote
Since Ryan's sister is the only one talking to you right now, guess you could sleep with her next.
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ToPee_OrNotToPee t1_jdltphh wrote
Man. You seriously couldn't pick a worse time to tell him. It's like you wanted drama to happen.
ToPee_OrNotToPee t1_jdltuhx wrote
Perhaps it's not her mistake, but he's allowed to have feelings about it. But at that, he either ends the relationship or learns to move past it
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Myrmodus t1_jdlue2s wrote
Of course. But OP waiting to tell him and then telling him as they were going someplace Ryan would be doesn’t help those feelings.
ToPee_OrNotToPee t1_jdluns2 wrote
Oh, definitely, she made a huge mistake with that one
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Fable_Noir t1_jdlv6y9 wrote
Well we all know that you have a 'type'. Any other cousins at all for a back up plan?
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humboldt77 t1_jdlwtds wrote
It’s been an hour with no response from OP. She’s probably hooked up with the sister and flirting with BFs dad.
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MordunnDregath t1_jdlxevp wrote
One can only dream . . .
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humboldt77 t1_jdlxo9f wrote
You, I like.
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