BeneficialName9863
BeneficialName9863 t1_j9ao3ab wrote
Reply to comment by As4shi in TIFU by sending a girl a hentai sticker by AltraGeneration
If it boarders on or is child pornography, I definitely judge. If you're getting off to a cartoon schoolgirl, you're a peadophile. OP is underage but still gave pornography to a minor, even if it wasn't child porn in this situation.
BeneficialName9863 t1_j9aktru wrote
Reply to comment by As4shi in TIFU by sending a girl a hentai sticker by AltraGeneration
That's the thing... I lived in a rural area that was culture wise, years behind cities, we mostly got drunk outside at 15 or went camping rather than anything online, MSN was new and had 2 player minesweeper. Hardly anyone was a "gamer"... Doing something like that in an innocent way would get someone made fun of for a bit, then they would see why it was creepy. The ones that took to blaming everyone else became pariahs.
Now, that will happen and reddit will pounce on a 15 year old, incels etc find comfort in warping other people. Tell them it's the girls fault for being creeped out, the friends fault for being too uncultured to understand hentai, they provide a sense of company. They aren't waiting to "accidentally" bump into someone after school, they are doing it online where they can reinforce the victim mentality.
Once someone's whole life is other creeps online it's too late. I once tried to "deprogram" an incel, I thought I was making progress but all I was actually doing was teach him how to hide the predatory cues he gave off.
BeneficialName9863 t1_j9aehyi wrote
Reddit is filled with creeps who want company in their lonelyness. You're young enough to not join them. If you're this mortified about giving her the sticker, you must know how it looks and seems to her. This can either become an embarrassing story you end up telling on a date or something that you let define you and make you bitter towards women.
I say that as an atheist who thinks sex work is work and deserves the same status and Rights as any other I'm not a religious prude or morally against sex. The hentai stuff is creepy though, a guy in my class had a magazine with a very young looking woman and a tentacle monster, 20 years on if I say "I saw creepy (guys name) in the garage" to a school friend, they know exactly who I mean, even if they were a different year. What was funny to him, and only him as a teenager means adult women still recoil and shudder now.
BeneficialName9863 t1_j9acdr2 wrote
Reply to comment by As4shi in TIFU by sending a girl a hentai sticker by AltraGeneration
That's also what people say when they are creeped out but don't want stuff to escalate. Not saying OP is definitely some weeb incel but having a little sister who has been in the girls situation when we were teenagers, the whole post creeps me out and puts my hackles up.
BeneficialName9863 t1_j23f12v wrote
Reply to comment by skaapjagter in TIFU When I fumigated the house with my diarrhoea during a family lunch. by skaapjagter
They are life changing, I can have cheese whenever I want!
BeneficialName9863 t1_j21u3m2 wrote
Mate, get lactase tablets! I had to endure gastric exorcism whenever I had dairy for years till I found them.
(If you can't get them anywhere else, pharmacies normally sell drops for lactose intolerant babies)
BeneficialName9863 t1_j1qezky wrote
Reply to comment by I_Thot_So in TIFU by thinking I have to practice with a pro before having sex with my girlfriend by [deleted]
Man with a fadora hat on his profile is creep. I for one am shocked!!!
BeneficialName9863 t1_jdzkcwj wrote
Reply to comment by Half_burnt_skunk in TIFU by telling a guy I always check him out by myotheracct_is7yo
One of my best friends is a lesbian, I fell for her before I knew but now i do, I don't feel rejected. What stays with me is that she was that lovely a person who to me without wanting anything from me.
I've got straight female friends where we have zero sexual tension too though, seeing them naked would be like walking in on my sister or cousin. That connection is definitely separate from sex to me, I've always been dragged away from a party or event by someone I just met because I was too dense to get the hint rather than relationships.