Born2fayl

Born2fayl t1_jedkczl wrote

So someone put a lily on your doorknob and your friend found a similar lily placed inside their home? I mean, if it were me, no matter how much I trusted the friend, I’d at least partly suspect they were playing some game. People are strange and it’s basically impossible to fully know someone. Maybe it’s for attention, drama, a joke? Not just the friend, but basically anyone who knows you both and has access to her place would be considered.

I’m not saying that is what it is, but what I would, with near certainty, say is that no one that is a stranger to the two of you broke into her place and placed a lily while also placing a lily on your doorknob. NEAR certainty. Take normal precautions though. And don’t be too polite to call for help, fight back, or make a scene if you feel like you’re in immediate danger.

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Born2fayl t1_j6hsc6g wrote

I’ve driven professionally for most of my adult life. I do not work on ice. There’s no way to mitigate the potential problems enough to make it worth it to me.

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Born2fayl t1_j2b2ckc wrote

I had a drill sergeant roll with me on fire watch duty, one time in basic. I had trained under a Renzo Gracie brown belt for a while before joining and I smoked him. The agreement was, if I win and don’t tell anyone there would be no consequences. We both kept our word. I mean, I’m telling you now, but that doesn’t count. He just didn’t want to risk having to deal with any disrespect from other privates.

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Born2fayl t1_iyw5y6j wrote

I don’t know you, so it’s hard to know what you’d be a likely victim of. Springfield isn’t that bad. It’s not 1970’s NYC. Theft is bad, but it’s getting bad everywhere. Homelessness is bad, but it’s getting bad everywhere. I’d be careful walking around at night, but…I’d be careful anywhere.

I guess if you’re a boring, middle class, moral panic type, Ozark or Nixa would be better, though I cannot personally imagine living anywhere that boring and chain store. Springfield is boring and small enough. I love in the MSU area and as long as you’re safe you’re probably going to be fine.

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