I see your general point, but as we have no idea what's going on with OP, I don't feel this was the place to make it.

I think the only genuine ones come from non-regulars.

It's disturbing how willing people are to self-censor for TikTok and Instagram. Makes me want to unal!v3 or sew3r slide.

I haven't read it, but now I want to!

Curious, is the "vet" a veterinarian, or a veteran?

This is supposed to be an enjoyable hobby, not another thing in life you've gotta just get through. If you're not liking a book, move on. Save your grim determination for dealing with utility companies and insurance and shit like that.

No one should have to deal with someone making comments or leering at them in the locker room, regardless of that person's gender identity, sexuality or whatever. It's hard to know the full truth of what happened in this case. Both sides naturally deny doing anything wrong and blame each other. The staff witnessed several girls yelling at the trans girl but even they don't know if something had preceded it.

You got downvoted but I agree with you here. It's not fair to say everyone has to swallow their discomfort to make someone else comfortable. These are teens, it's quite possible there's no villain here, just kids who maybe aren't dealing with their feelings well, whichever side of the story is closer to the truth.