OhThatEthanMiguel

OhThatEthanMiguel t1_j8m9oei wrote

I mean, to summarize the best comments: flowers will fix it, but you probably shouldn't fix it.( But you're in high school, ergo you won't take the good advice... so just make sure that you know the meaning of the flowers you get; for example yellow roses mean friendship and that would make this worse.)

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OhThatEthanMiguel t1_j8azxfz wrote

Well, in that case I'd say he probably found out when he got home. You probably should have told him and just said you didn't want to have a conversation about it but he should know. You could mention you have a gay friend( me) who butt-douches before sex even when topping to avoid discomfort or... exactly this.

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OhThatEthanMiguel t1_j71zd90 wrote

well, if they do anything with it then you'll have proof. but unless you really ashamed of your body, It's not really a problem. anyone you're interested in who would see that picture and not realize it might be a cold shower, and not wonder how whoever is showing them got the picture? isn't worth impressing anyway.

by stressing, you are giving the bullies all the power. learn to laugh at yourself to take the power away from them.

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