I don't see why not enjoying being with someone who constantly is looking for depressing subjects and contantly crying and in need of emptional support is such a bad thing. OP should be there to help, but she should be aware that people do get afected by your mood and you should look to be a pleasant person arround the people you like. If she really does become jealous that OP asks his mom questions or his parents for help then yeah he kinda has the right to complain. You dont go into relationships looking for someone to listen to you whinning constantly. You should support your friends and love ones, but you are not an emotional dump.

People need to stop being so fragile, she has the right to be ubset, but OP already apologised. No need for gifts or writen apologies. Do I have to apologise for walking next to paraplegic person, or see next to a blind person? No. Its just a picture of a baby, he meant no harm in showing it, theres no need to make a fuss about it.

You can also eat pillow filling until you die, at some point you have to accept reality.

Damn bro, idk if I could ever move on after such a colossal FU. I hope you can cope all your life with such a devastating fail.

Wow, what a FU!! I couldnt live after such a traumatizing experience.

Wtf did I just read? Dipping balls in boiling oil is not cleaning yourself, its mental disease. Stop it, get some help.

Ofc it doesnt. But being traumatized from what OP described does.

Everyone has had worst moment and didnt get TRAUMATIZED for it.

Keep calling abuse the most mild insignificant shit. Leave your house more, maybe you'll learn that leaving someone that trully cares about you just because they acted wrongly once is not a good idea.

Productive comment!

Reading this gave me cringe shivers

Oh, I think its binary? Im the most reasonable here you are the one saying to call cps

Look! This guy gets it perfectly.

You are right, calling CPS and being taken away is what OP really needs to find some stabilty in his chilhood. Based advice. You are clearly the most knowledgeable. Those social service workers that have 50 kids to look after will take good care of him.

No and yes. I think it was relevant to what you replied just know. Plus I saw you are the same who was arguing on another thread. What I really care about is what you have to say.

Ahaha. Lets get something straight. Physical punishment is something I dont agree with, but depending on various circumstances it can be blatant child abuse, or just miss management of parenting methods without making it full on child cruelty. You see, I'm not a parent, but I know enought about it to know that I know jack shit about parenting, so I reduce myself to reasonable moral judgements, and in this situation, since I wasnt there to watch, and taking into account the fact that he called his mom a bitch, I dont think its such a big deal that he got hit for it, I wouldnt do it myself tho, I just dont automatically accuse people of being shit parents and want them to get charged with child abuse for something that clearly it not that simple, just like parenting isnt in itself. Now in my original statement, I said what I thought about the hitting part and that I agreed with the incial "not going out with his friends" punishment, thus not even justfying him insulting his parents, if he deserved it to beggin with. I do have empathy, but just like OP said in another comment, its doesnt happen often, so I dont think the kid will be traumatized and that he will improove and be well with his parents. I was just trying to share some insight on how I'm sure his parents worry about him and how he should try to see their perspective.

But WHEN DID I SAY I SUPORTED HITTING YOUr KID?!?! go read my original comment, literally the first sentence I wrote was "I dont support spanking your kid". I never in this whole discussion said I condoned hitting your kids, I just said that punishment like not letting him go out was totally fair since he didnt do his school work before.

When did I justify abuse??

Whats part of wanting your kid to succeed at school and not tolerating him to call his mom a "bitch" makes them narcisistic parents??😂😂 How should op's parents treat him then??

OP: "Yo, bitch, bring me a sandwitch while I'm playing fortnite!"

OP's Mom: "Yes master, after the sandwich I will make your homework for you, sorry for disturbing you play session..."

I mean is this good parenting? Because if you think they are abusive and narcisistic, then is this the right way they should act?

"Hope you get out as soon as possible"- You talk as if he was in prision, they just didnt let him go this time cuz he has duties. How cringe are you kids on reddit, making OP think he is right for not doing homework and disrespecting his parents. Maybe in a few years you will understand and agree with my original comment.

I dont agree with spanking that much, but if you dont fullfill your school duties you have to accept some sort of punishment, like not going out until you finish them. I'm sure they just want you to succeed in your studies. You feel like you are talking to a brick wall because they might be right and are not going to "listen" to you because they know they are right about you needing to study and not saying stuff like that to your parents.