The main problem I think is that it is not the first time that this occure.

Both of them seems to compete zbout who do the most for the kid.

It began with OP complaining about the father involvment in the begining, and him bein defensive.

As far as I know, that is a tecipe for à nasty break up brewing.

My comment was also for her. He went to his mom's.

May be to seek advices, maybe for getting some confort.

By assuming that he went to complain, there is little chance the situation wil end peacefully

That he went. Not that he vented.

Why assume the worst ?

It is good you can aknowledge that.

But may be both of you should go to couplé therapy, because there seems to be unresolved issues between you.

You are making this up. All we know is he gone to his mom's. An you are really Quick to dismiss the shit OP said...

Every woman is pissed off when her man is peacefully napping anyway.