ShoelessJodi
ShoelessJodi t1_j9w1vll wrote
Reply to comment by The_Stein244 in LPT: Maintain separate bank accounts when you get married by The_Stein244
Because employment status changes, family expenses increase, children are born, cars break, people get sick. Yes, In a happy marriage, you should be looking to be useful and supportive to your partner, but again, hang out on r/marriage and you'll see plenty of people who are not. So they fight over who has to pay and whether one partner should have to "lend money" to the other when they unexpectedly needed new tires.
I became the stay at home parent for 6 years. Thankfully I have a loving, supportive partner who values my self care more than I do. That's not the case for everyone.
ShoelessJodi t1_j9vkgqj wrote
Hang out over on r/marriage. Every day there is a post with major relationship problems stemming from exactly this arrangement.
Edit to add: this gets extremely difficult when a couple has children and one partner becomes a primary care giver and it affects income.
ShoelessJodi t1_j5znjc0 wrote
Very Chris Van Allsburg, and I love it. It would fit right in as a one off illustration out of The Mysteries of Harris Burdick.
ShoelessJodi t1_j4gv5d1 wrote
I drive past that sign twice a week and it annoys me far more than the traffic I'm inevitably going to encounter a few miles further.
ShoelessJodi t1_j2t0nu6 wrote
Reply to comment by aZamaryk in Question about unfinished basement ceiling by [deleted]
Dodgeballs and nerf darts are made of foam. Even if Chuck Norris was playing, I don't think our pipes would be in danger.
ShoelessJodi t1_j2t01n0 wrote
Reply to comment by modembutterfly in Question about unfinished basement ceiling by [deleted]
From what I understood, this is a soundproofing insulation made from cotton fibres and isn't harmful to be around.
ShoelessJodi t1_j2sqkrn wrote
Reply to Question about unfinished basement ceiling by [deleted]
Insulation picture https://imgur.com/gallery/gpP6RE7
ShoelessJodi t1_jdjnr04 wrote
Reply to comment by Yankiwi17273 in The Pennsylvania State Coat of Arms is badass and underrated by EMF911
It's true. We are. Sincerely, A Maryland Transplant.