The_Stein244

The_Stein244 OP t1_jdi2pwj wrote

Just whipped up some numbers for you, thanks for making me look back at it. My house is 1,000 SF.

Average Cost Per Month:

2018: $56

2019: $56

2020: $70

2021: $82

2022: $93

Average Cost Per Month (past 6 months, CMP+Nautilus):

$129 ($79 from CMP and $50 from Nautilus)

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Feb 2023 was an outlier with $167 from CMP and $83 from Nautilus

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The_Stein244 OP t1_j9vhrcm wrote

That's fine, but how often do you buy things that you want that you partner would find frivolous? If you do, has it ever created an argument? This is simply a way to avoid that. By contributing a high amount like I suggested, it is still a situation where there is mostly one account. Just a little fun money to avoid the arguments.

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The_Stein244 OP t1_j9vhc9p wrote

That is 100% the wrong way to take this. It has nothing to do with wanting or being prepared to leave. It is specifically to have an account that you can spend any way you want. Mainly I'm talking about fun things that, in a joint bank account, your partner might argue is frivolous. This is a way to avoid a potential argument.

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The_Stein244 t1_iuecj2x wrote

Reply to comment by osasuna in Onestone by le_bouffon

Yeah he should have killed the first two and then there was a third "Redbird" with the punchline "you can only kill two birds with Onestone!"

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