SkyrimIsForTheNerds
SkyrimIsForTheNerds t1_jeb84aw wrote
Reply to comment by zorggalacticus in TIFU by deleting a guys number by [deleted]
They could be ace or greysexual.
SkyrimIsForTheNerds t1_je0m947 wrote
Ugh, this is the cringiest thing I’ve seen today. Maybe get a hobby and an identity that isn’t “I like looking at pictures of dudes boning each other.”
SkyrimIsForTheNerds t1_jdj8ju6 wrote
Sounds like the coworker knew what they were doing and wanted you to be the scapegoat.
SkyrimIsForTheNerds t1_jdeyv0m wrote
Reply to comment by MysteriousMist24 in TIFU by showing my friend a picture of another friends baby when she's been having miscarriages. by [deleted]
You don’t even know what’s wrong with her but you assume she shouldn’t have kids as a result.
SkyrimIsForTheNerds t1_jdeuvw2 wrote
Reply to comment by MysteriousMist24 in TIFU by showing my friend a picture of another friends baby when she's been having miscarriages. by [deleted]
Good thing you aren’t friends with her anymore. You sound ableist af.
SkyrimIsForTheNerds t1_jc44gem wrote
I mean…was it an English class?
SkyrimIsForTheNerds t1_jaerr1i wrote
Reply to comment by Odd_Ad_5639 in TIFU by cheating on my wife a second time by Odd_Ad_5639
Way to twist my words. You’re not the victim here.
SkyrimIsForTheNerds t1_jaemi7a wrote
Reply to comment by Odd_Ad_5639 in TIFU by cheating on my wife a second time by Odd_Ad_5639
You keep saying that but I don’t believe you. Your views that your country is just “better” than hers is gross and sad. You’ve already said your wife has a closer relationship to your daughter than you do. Why the hell would you continue to make her life miserable?
SkyrimIsForTheNerds t1_jaelpt0 wrote
Reply to TIFU by cheating on my wife a second time by Odd_Ad_5639
You are horribly selfish. Everything you’ve described here has only been to the benefit of yourself. Your delusion that you could give your daughter a better life than her loving mom (I assume because you want to just throw your money at problems) is laughable. You can give her the best life by giving them child support.
SkyrimIsForTheNerds t1_ja29w37 wrote
Reply to comment by socialthrowaway87 in Best bars for queer women? by Electronic_Yam_9246
I don’t think acknowledging the reality that we live in is implying that we should not participate. But it is disingenuous to say that we are letting fear limit us as though it is an unreasonable fear. Describing the very real, if small, fear of sexual assault or worse as “comfort” is tone-deaf.
SkyrimIsForTheNerds t1_ja1elnm wrote
Reply to comment by socialthrowaway87 in Best bars for queer women? by Electronic_Yam_9246
That’s pretty tone-deaf to tell a woman.
SkyrimIsForTheNerds t1_j9fcz9d wrote
Reply to comment by Bee-Banana in Tifu by deleting my boyfriends pokemon scarlet saves by Bee-Banana
Good gravy, listen to your damn boyfriend instead of thinking you know better what he wants than he does. You bringing it up constantly is just reopening the wound for him and of course he’s getting mad again. Give him time to mourn the time he’s wasted on the game before he realizes the time he’s really wasted has been in this relationship.
SkyrimIsForTheNerds t1_j9d2agl wrote
Reply to TIFU by not trusting my girlfriend by Charming_Rock9189
I feel like I had a stroke whilst reading this.
Sounds like you need to grow up, and you have time to do that while you wait for that week to turn into forever.
SkyrimIsForTheNerds t1_j81mlsm wrote
Okay Seymour.
SkyrimIsForTheNerds t1_j6omviw wrote
Wow…I’d be pissed too if you almost burned my place down because you “weren’t thinking”.
SkyrimIsForTheNerds t1_j2c8j5v wrote
Reply to TIFU by going on a Grindr date by FoldPsychological589
“TIFU by not advocating for myself” you mean. Unfortunately you have to be able to set clear boundaries if you’re going to date, no matter whether you find those people through Grindr or the newspaper wanted ads.
SkyrimIsForTheNerds t1_j2bteqj wrote
You didn’t wear gloves before doing it, but you can wear gloves tomorrow! Not like, latex ones, but cool ones.
SkyrimIsForTheNerds t1_j1qfht6 wrote
Reply to TIFU by thinking I have to practice with a pro before having sex with my girlfriend by [deleted]
There are a couple of ways you can move forward from this. One is to be taking medications to reduce the likelihood that you could spread it to a partner, be honest and upfront about your status, and let them make the decision of whether the risk is worth it to them. You also could look into dating other people who already have HPV and HSV (I hope you had the others treated).
Both of those viruses are far more common than people think, as many people either never have any symptoms or eventually expel it from their system.
Be honest about your sexual inexperience with a potential partner too. The right person will be patient and willing to teach or learn with you.
There are a lot of people who are in your shoes, whether their first time was consensual or not. It is not a death sentence for your romantic prospects unless you make it so.
SkyrimIsForTheNerds t1_it86u2q wrote
Reply to TIFU by telling a teacher I was SA’d by [deleted]
Awww, I think a lot of us have unfortunately had experience with what you’re going through. Don’t ever feel guilty for telling your story. Staying silent is part of how this continues to happen to so many people, and it’s not our fault something was done to us. I’m glad you have such an amazing support person in your corner.
SkyrimIsForTheNerds t1_jebf1g7 wrote
Reply to comment by Puffena in TIFU by deleting a guys number by [deleted]
Probably feels too “woke” to assholes.