>You're being defensive and looking too hard for something that's not there.

And honestly, if I may butt in: You're super condenscending.

This type of language may work in r/TwoXChromosomes, but outside that echo chamber people have different views on things. I mean I understand your points, but delivering them like you did really doesn't help

At least someone accepts that there are both adults that consent to a relationship.

Still I have seen similar posts (but MF) that get blasted because of the age gap.

Suddenly no one talks about the age gap. I see that it applies to MF relationships only... ahh the double standard.

But anyway, you gotta now know what you wanna prioritize in life: Love or career. I'd personally stick with career if your significant other doesn't accept you for who you are.

This is such a BS story

This mf above is what happens when you post and live in comfort without even realizing the period... also for the fact that the father died as well...

They don't make it their personality trait, like in the west, but they do care