maybeimbonkers
maybeimbonkers t1_jefnhpi wrote
Reply to comment by TelevisionMelodic340 in I [F32] had one of the worst fights with husband [M32] by [deleted]
Thanks for understanding. MIL has been doing really poorly health wise. The only reason why I'm not so concerned about sitting in the living room ( believe me I try to be as non intrusive as possible) is because she gets a minimum of 2 hours of rest in the afternoon. She doesn't have to do much of work as I cook and do the dishes most of the time. She just has to take her medicines and maybe get some warm water from the kitchen. Sometimes she'll sleep 3-4 hours in the afternoon.
maybeimbonkers t1_jefgd3k wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in I [F32] had one of the worst fights with husband [M32] by [deleted]
Can I just ask if it was wrong that I wanted to work in the living room? I always make sure to turn the light off and be quiet..I also just needed some space alone while working. Is this wrong that I took this stance?
maybeimbonkers t1_jefg0oy wrote
Reply to comment by UsuallyWrite2 in I [F32] had one of the worst fights with husband [M32] by [deleted]
I am just wondering what I could have done for this situation to not have happened. Was it wrong I wanted to sit in the living room? Especially when I said I will ensure I'm quiet? I'm just tired of paying rent and not getting space.
maybeimbonkers t1_jefssb5 wrote
Reply to comment by Unl0vableDarkness in I [F32] had one of the worst fights with husband [M32] by [deleted]
My husband doesn't realize and will not accept his brother in law is causing issues.
I don't condone my behavior in the least. But I will say that I warned him many times to give me back my laptop. I felt very triggered that he took my laptop and was trying to act like I was the one at fault. He got mad that I was trying to take my laptop back. I told him it's completely unacceptable that he's acting this way and he laughed that I was calling him unacceptable after what I'm doing. Basically all this pushed me to what I did. Again, I know I am wrong. But I'm providing context for my actions.