niceoutside2022

niceoutside2022 t1_ja3yz2p wrote

She's gotten kind of weird lately with trying to pretend she's not aging, but you have to give it to her, she's a self made woman who worked her ass off to get where she did

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niceoutside2022 t1_j84ulus wrote

it's called unity of purpose, meaning, you have agreed upon goals and are both committed to it. Do yourself a favor and don't get married until you know what your potential spouse prioritizes.

You want to buy a home, have a family? If the person you are with would rather spend money on other things, you have a problem. Similarly, if you want to travel the world and take things as they come, you had better be with someone who is comfortable with the level of uncertainty that comes with it. The point being, you need to be honest with yourself and each other, don't let the romantic buzz at the early stages of a relationship blind you, because it will if you don't do the hard work.

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