romanceordelusion

romanceordelusion t1_j87wi1q wrote

Get off in the back of the bus, especially if other folks are boarding, as they can only pay at the front. Exceptions are if you’re super close to the front and no one is boarding.

When a bus arrives, peer into the window and confirm no one is getting off before you start boarding.

if you choose to sit in a handicap spot on a bus or one of the seats near the door on the metro, be aware and prepared to cede your seat to someone older or someone with a cart or a lot of bags. You don’t need to ask if they want it, get up and nod to them. They can take it or not.

The term Metro is reserved for the train. theres no special term for taking the bus so your guide is a public transit guide :)

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romanceordelusion t1_j2fi0do wrote

As a pedestrian I confirm the slowing speed of the car approaching my intersection and then I look for other danger - most often other cars turning and crossing into the crosswalk who don’t see me. I can’t make eye contact with you because I need to assess that other parts of the road are clear. There’s a lot going on. Don’t take it personally

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romanceordelusion t1_j21ceea wrote

Peace of mind as a young woman means a lot. As posters have noted below, you can get shot anywhere in DC, but as another young woman, having to feel nervous every time you leave your house later at night is a tough sell.

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romanceordelusion t1_iz2rbti wrote

Yes, don’t be sentimental. For example you can get a ton of couches at a 100 or less price point but because folks paid a lot for it they want to price it at like 300/400. Hard to sell those goods when there’s tons of cheap options. Check out what other similar items are going for in marketplace and price similarly

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romanceordelusion t1_iw5lf8p wrote

I dunno - I don’t go out to eat much and don’t go to bars and I love living right in the center of it all. There’s so much joy I get from being surrounded by people walking dogs, easy access to tons of events, walking through gorgeous streets, park hangs, concerts…

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