Submitted by Familiar_Finish1488 t3_zhfg8n in GetMotivated
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DeathcoreMachine t1_izlz7l4 wrote
I turn 40 in 3 months and have been struggling. Thanks for the boost
WangLung1931 t1_izlzau4 wrote
Unless you're 62? With modern advances in medicine, you could live past 120. I'd like to think a 100-year-old could one day skew this chart.
Elpapuco t1_izm24xf wrote
I still have a chance
Pelotonnes t1_izm3f9n wrote
My grandmother is almost 100 and never considered she could live this long. I wonder what she would have done differently had she considered it.
WangLung1931 t1_izm4owv wrote
If you're reading this, you still have a chance.
WangLung1931 t1_izm4w3j wrote
Saving for 40-60 years of retirement is tough. Might as well start a Fortune 100 company.
Boobsiclese t1_izm5569 wrote
Thank you.... like... what?!... all these people had a shit ton of connections, experience, and money to get this shit going.
TheManInTheShack t1_izmbfxx wrote
I read somewhere that startups are more successful when the CEO is older and that the age that sees the most success is 60.
EndOfTheLine00 t1_izmbx7k wrote
I am 35. Seeing that referred to as middle age makes me panicked and depressed. I feel like I have not changed since 20. I feel even less motivated now.
ZX10AARRRRRGHHH t1_izml78r wrote
At 19 he stole the idea from people way more intelligent than him
justasmalltowndad t1_izmork5 wrote
There are 70 year olds out there who still run full marathons and go to work the next day. They may not be on this biased chart, but they are still masterful examples of the potential of a man's life.
Just by being 35, you already have the advantage when it comes to women, persuasion, trust, and life experience. (If you haven't succeeded much in life, then at least now you know about all the failures that you can avoid) You're older and perceived "wiser" by most people who are getting started.
Even if you don't FEEL like you've made progress, it doesn't matter. Who cares what you FEEL, figure out the concrete advantages you have and use them. You're a man in his prime, a black-maned lion, a king that has been on sabbatical. Just take the crown.
In 1 year, you could have your direction solidly figured out. In 10 years, you could have pursued that direction and reached your dreams. Spend the next 10 years after that enjoying the fight of keeping your dreams alive. Then retire at 55 a happy, wealthy man.
ModifyAndMoveForward t1_izmoxuj wrote
This chart is so terrible 🤣
spacewhale_rescue t1_izmpixk wrote
Zuckerberg is not a source of inspiration.
justasmalltowndad t1_izmpx8h wrote
The thing this chart doesn't show are the years and tears that each of these people went through before hitting that big break.
scorpionsketch t1_izmrspd wrote
Still trying to push on being an artist. I even started going to college later in life for graphic design. It's still a lot of work to improve your craft and get noticed though.
scorpionsketch t1_izmrzdh wrote
You're not wrong. Even if he was honestly an amazing person, I still don't think it would be helpful for a person to compare themselves to someone who owns something as big as Facebook.
ZX10AARRRRRGHHH t1_izmtbw7 wrote
Theft is all the rage these days. Fuckerberg was ahead of the curve and allowed many corporations unparalleled access to everyone's data. Turns out, human social "interaction" can be very lucrative. Just gotta find an emotion or opinion and put a price on it.
cthuluwamp t1_izmu1ax wrote
sweet! I got engaged when I was 35 and then booted when I was 40, lost everything. Not only is this showing that I'm a late starter, but It's rubbing other peoples achievements in my face because I have less now than when I was 20 and homeless.
Edit: because of this image I am seriously having a minor panic attack and am going to puke.
GinandTonicandLime t1_izmx8r9 wrote
Fascinating just how many of the people on this list are truly, fundamentally awful human beings. Many of these people, while shockingly, undeservedly wealthy, are absolutely not people to revere.
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Aretosteles t1_izmza5k wrote
Agree. No idea why this is considered motivational of any kind
MrMobster t1_izmzvqp wrote
It's a stupid graphics made by someone who has no clue. I mean, midlife crisis at 35? marriage at 20? What is this, 19th century?
Also, that Zuckerberg mention is so cringy and dumb.
Im_pattymac t1_izn16nm wrote
I dunno about this chart... 35 middle life crisis, marriage before 25 (when average age in USA is 28.5)...their ages seem off
redRabbitRumrunner t1_izn20ng wrote
I’m 40 and just starting my quarter life crisis…
MrsPuffSmashedMyFoot t1_izn2jj2 wrote
Honestly, sometimes it is too late to start. Can you start playing soccer at 25 and go pro? The answer is no. But can you join a rec league and have fun, most definitely.
I see this on so many “activity” subs where it’s like people don’t want to start something if they can’t go pro in it. It’s really strange to me. Like when I started lifting weights, it wasn’t to compete or stand on stage, I enjoy it and it’s good for me.
ErlAskwyer t1_izn3fnv wrote
Yeah thanks for demotivating me Reddit I thought middle age was 50
[deleted] t1_izn44n4 wrote
Depends on how you frame it. Could also say it's only halfway to American President.
Rafferty97 t1_izn45sm wrote
The little straight married couple seems like an unnecessary addition to the diagram
Harlequin-sama t1_izn5p9s wrote
Ppl who say that to others should be ashamed. Keep your negativity, no one wants to hear your whining. What gives me strength, is "YEA BUDDY, LIGHTWEIGHT!" Pardon, I meant: "Yea buddy, don't worry, keep doing your best and something good will happen."
The first time I heard that, when I was 25. "No, it's too late for an apprenticeship." I found one with 33 lmao. Joke's on you, buddy.
I'm pursuing now a carrier in programming and going to start an internship in a SAP firm.
I'm at the right time and the right place :)
Harlequin-sama t1_izn6780 wrote
Thank you for those words.
I will wear my black lion mane with proud!
Everything you do turns into experience. I stand before a really good opportunity atm and it feels so amazing. It just depends on me. I'll give 120% and hope for the best.
SafeSpecialist6293 t1_izn9y02 wrote
It’s stupid. I would like to believe in it but reality is different. I’m almost 50 some things are impossible to do despite me being very active. After 70 hours of work in a week the only thing you desire come home and play sugar crush, rest, I’m just tired. Plus, I tried some many things nothing worked, I don’t give up, but it’s harder with the age. I believe in universal luck and those lucky people should be generous and empathetic to others
three-sense t1_iznbpi4 wrote
Should add the age he lost $70B on meta
three-sense t1_iznbukx wrote
Yeah what is that shit infographic funded by Meta (tm) Corp please like and share
LeonEmbers t1_iznc8qk wrote
Didn't Colonel Sanders only make it big late in his life?
Dorsiflexionkey t1_izncnlu wrote
Reddit: "Here's one tiny little thing you overlooked, phew now I'm depressed and can blame something else and go back to wasting my time on reddit guilt-free!"
Elicabeth t1_izncvql wrote
I am 40+ and think someone in their mid 20:s is trying to motivate other young people who did not launch facebook before 20.
WhiteChocolatey t1_iznczm6 wrote
This is the most demotivating thing I have seen in a while.
stonedcoldstuna t1_iznd0il wrote
wtf is this
UnexpectedAmy t1_izndmus wrote
I mean, as a 36 year old still trying to get my feet firmly into live, it's not so much a mid-life crisis as life has always been a crisis, but you're older now.
Millennials and Gen Z might in general have less mid-life crises as the concept seems developed from a time where people had their lives together by 35 and realised they'd achieved all they were supposed to and were forced to look at the reality that half-lifetime of emotional avoidance.
ManikShamanik t1_izne08s wrote
This makes no fucking sense (as per usual). If quarter life is 25, how can midlife be 35...?!
Then "we live 78 years on average" - where...? Not in developing countries, they don't. And, if that's the case, quarter life is 19.5 years and half life is 39.
borisperrons t1_iznf8ce wrote
No no, you just have to be more n4zi than Ferdinand Porsche.
Apotheosis33 t1_iznh9sd wrote
And here I'm sitting at 30yo shitty job, no love or partner and no family. But thanks these posts give me hope to move forward.
DreadPirateGriswold t1_iznhyls wrote
Col. Harland Sanders had a restaurant for a while before he figured out to franchise it.
Thus KFC was born in 1952 when he was 62 years old.
Altorode t1_iznis0x wrote
So many of the comments on getmotivated can be boiled down to "AND HERES WHY THIS ONE DOESNT APPLY TO ME TOO". It defeats the point of joining a getmotivated sub if you're not gonna play along. Like yeah, most of the motivation is kinda vague and holding up exceptional examples, but motivation is already a fickle and fleeting thing, on a certain level you've just got to play along and not think too hard.
Yeah, not all the posts will fit any given individual, but I feel like the least getmotivated thing you can do is go into the comments on posts like these and explain precisely why they're crap.
This one for example, is just "it's not too late, heres some examples of people doing big things at all ages" and people are taking offence that THEY couldn't start a billion dollar company at 40 so therefore the message is garbage. Stop taking it literally, it's just "its not too late".
Edit: I'm not defending this post, it's not exactly amazing. But it's depressing how almost every single comment section on this sub is "nah doesn't apply" "ugh you used a bad example, back to scrolling and fapping myself to death"
TheLadyKoi t1_iznjnjl wrote
Oh I lost out once I had to drop out of college, in debt from that and cannot afford to pay it off due to lack of experience and unable to get higher paying jobs without a college degree. I'll likely never own a home, or even travel because of living paycheck to paycheck. Some people get the shit end of life.
PermanentBrunch t1_iznjqnr wrote
35 is extremely young, and NOT “midlife-crisis” era, Jesus God.
JiggyNorris t1_iznks7n wrote
Why is the married couple displayed before the age of 25, not after. Do people in the US get married so early???
RedPine1234 t1_iznkw2e wrote
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EndOfTheLine00 t1_iznm2uc wrote
"Just by being 35, you already have the advantage when it comes to women, persuasion, trust, and life experience. "
I have none of these things
Maschinenherz t1_iznmaoq wrote
Thank you, this is a great chart.
I am absolutely not a woke crybaby or something, but... could someone please make a chart like that with female only inventors, writers and whatnot? Because I find it mildly distressing to see most names here are male. Of course the majority of good things coming from men in our society, but...
I could use some motivation by/about fellow women...
Maschinenherz t1_iznmcsi wrote
SAME HERE!!!
MinnieShoof t1_iznn1td wrote
So… you’re saying it’s 60~
TheBuddhaBoxx t1_iznnc1h wrote
Lame and kind of depressing.
So much more to life than inventing crap and making money. And lots of people live well into their 90s now.
Also- screw mark zuckerberg he helped ruin society.
NorthCatan t1_iznni80 wrote
Also if I'm not mistaken they're all corporate leaders, that's a great source of inspiration.
/s
riversquidz t1_iznnsig wrote
I’m 37 so it’s nice to see that my dreams of making uniforms for the Nazis is still within reach, what a great example
TeddyPerkins95 t1_iznoayk wrote
Good post
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Snappy5454 t1_iznpinq wrote
If you haven’t changed since 20, that’s your problem. Sorry if this is a wake up call, but I’m also that age and man, you should have changed a lot since 20.
Chimpacide t1_iznpisu wrote
All of these are "yeah, but...". It's not like if I work as hard as I can for the next 2 years, then I'll be able to launch a company with the same circumstances as any of these. Way more factors than just the age and determination of the founder contributed to their success.
JonnyB2_YouAre1 t1_iznppbm wrote
It's never too late to start because if you don't start then what else are you going to do?
Luigibeforetheimpact t1_iznqh69 wrote
Causally throwing in Zuckerberg starting the collapse of democracy at the age of 19 I think is a little uncalled for
JonnyB2_YouAre1 t1_iznqxf1 wrote
What would 50 year old Endoftheline00 say to 35 year old Endoftheline00?
Thank you for looking forward to those next 15 years rather than backward at the last 15.
JonnyB2_YouAre1 t1_iznr2hn wrote
A chart is only as wise as the chart maker.
Legolas_legged t1_iznrgdq wrote
I wish I had a wife to poke me in the back to try harder but also maybe she would leave me for being useless and then i'd be depressed for like a year or something. ._.
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QiyanasStoriesYT t1_iznt644 wrote
It's never too late to learn how to make charts.
EndOfTheLine00 t1_iznuf0k wrote
OK, maybe I was being dramatic. I think maybe it was after 25 that I changed quite little.
TrojanFireBearPig t1_iznwij2 wrote
Dude, this chart is horrible.
Hope you feel better :p
SafeSpecialist6293 t1_iznx9t4 wrote
You achieved so much more than many others. I hear people talking and they stop at crying and talking. You have done talking and started to do it.
Console_Stackup t1_iznyv84 wrote
Wait midlife crisis is only at 35????
Hell yeah! I get to buy my Porsche 911 even sooner than i thought
NickQuickly t1_izo06u3 wrote
Well this made me feel like shit.
downvotemeplss t1_izo0xqj wrote
This kind of highlights our obsession with entrepreneurs. I wish there were other important figures included such as artists.
stefanybaez t1_izo1vhy wrote
Ok this has to be the worst inspirational chart ever. Mark Zuckerberg highlight makes it even worse. How is 35 mid life crisis age? So confusing lol
spiderborland t1_izo2o73 wrote
I hate Facebook and think Mark is a creep… but he’s still worth billions for starting a website he made in college.
spiderborland t1_izo2r8g wrote
Anyone else see the “35 mid life crisis” and think “wtf”
Anakin_Skywanker t1_izo59rj wrote
A successful marriage isn’t your spouse pushing you to do more. That’s toxic and unhealthy. A successful marriage is you wanting to do more so you and your spouse can reap the rewards while your spouse cheers you on and helps however they can. (While you do the same for them.)
Longjumping-Bar-6856 t1_izo5jis wrote
So, if you’re over say 35, you had better be born into wealth or already be rich. Hmm. This makes me sad
Alkemian t1_izo696f wrote
For stealing an idea from fellow college goers*
Fixed it for you
Hudsonrybicki t1_izobgsz wrote
And you’re done at 60. That’s it. You just have to pack it up after that.
blazelet t1_izofz56 wrote
I started my dream career at 36. The graphic is fantastically wrong relative to scale.
spiderborland t1_izog7ra wrote
Sure. Sure.
PlayHumankind t1_izoi6qu wrote
What about life after 60?
hickryjustaswell t1_izokapy wrote
I worked a marathon and saw an 81 year old who was on his 50th marathon. Said he started doing them in his 30s.
mrlittleoldmanboy t1_izoncqm wrote
I’m 24 and a bartender and this chart just bummed me out lol
way2russian4u t1_izoo41e wrote
That's so messed up. Still single and alone in my 30s When do I reach age of "making friends" and "not depressed"
Stop with the unrealistic, toxic positivity please.
Perplexed-Dad t1_izovz2u wrote
so 61 is too late?
Felix_the_scout t1_izowk7f wrote
its never to late, get up, fail, get up again, fail again fail better, get up again and keep going, no one will remember us in 50 years, this is the moment, this is the time to make your life what you want it to be.
hendo1685 t1_izoxank wrote
Agree. Also, these peoples ages probably contributed to their experience and thus success. These types of charts/quotes are usually about people that do have a "mid-life crisis" and do a completely different passion in life. These examples are all entirely business related. It'd be nice to see artists and musicians on here. "Artist A started playing guitar - age 35". "Artist B started painting at age 42" etc.
Nahrkin t1_izoye83 wrote
I mean when you turn it side wise seeing what people accomplished while being older then me helped a bit but yeah not a great chart😅.
Saanvik t1_izoyerh wrote
I just looked at the far right, and most are bad examples.
Charles Flint was already a success before founding IBM.
Amadeo Giannini was already a success (he actually retired at 31!) before founding the bank that would become Bank of America.
Kawasaki Shōzō was 39, not 56, when he started Kawasaki.
Ferdinand Porsche was indeed 56 when he founded Porsche.
Sheldon Adelson bought the sands when he was 54, but he'd already made millions of dollars in the entertainment business (running COMDEX, etc.).
HerbalGrizzly t1_izpcwjq wrote
This is extremely depressing and not motivating
KeivanAR t1_izpgtp4 wrote
I joined this sub a week or two ago and am astounded at the amount of negativity in here. Thought it would be a sub of people motivating each other, but the comments just try to look for problems and try to put everything down. Why would you join a motivation sub to spread negativity? It makes no sense to me. It seems that when some people feel bad or have a negative view of life, they just try to impose how they themselves feel on others.
sum_dude44 t1_izpkyr3 wrote
GTFOH 35 mid life crisis
Pristine-Housing-257 t1_izply3k wrote
Years of establishing
Least-March7906 t1_izpzstl wrote
I actually found it a bit motivating, given that I’m bang on at the midlife crisis stage, and I’m actually having a crisis. It’s good to see that it is not the end of the world, if you understand what I mean
scorpionsketch t1_izq74rl wrote
Can't argue with that. You're right on the money.
myheartwentboom t1_izq96xi wrote
I find you more inspiring than anyone on that chart.
I believe in you.
scorpionsketch t1_izqbjoh wrote
Oh, thank you! Reddit seems really good for artists to get advice on improving their work, so I'm glad I decided to start posting here. Hope to grow a lot.
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ZX10AARRRRRGHHH t1_izqfb5i wrote
Cheers to... Capitalism? Greed? Greepitalism?
scorpionsketch t1_izqfdyj wrote
All of the above.
nevertoolate1983 t1_izqj5y7 wrote
Nevertoolate?
I agree :)
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n00bn00bAtFreenode t1_izqngtt wrote
Next time please don't attack people wo feel bad, who just want to discuss their struggle to be motivated. I feel your comment offend me but I see your emotions too so removed my original comment for others like you. But I see the things you said are for you also,as you attacking people about attacking ideas and breaking taboo/not behaving with honesty, and discussion level just crashed down.
Your comment isn't helping, but still you could have your own opinion and say whatever you think. Sad is that no of haters stop to hate and just try to motivate, understand. Actually, maybe you are the same, you just want to say I cannot be motivated because those dumb heads (which could be people with sanity biased, really badly hurt by life etc) would just be beaten and you are proud of that! What a heck :)
Maybe I am biased cause I had really bad 3 last year's and recap it this month, but I sometimes feel like I have depression, and just want to waste it as I not feel anything would, could be better. Recapping shows me also that mistakes I made was because I believed some people who told me I could believe, were about to be close friends but they used me and are piece of shits, used me mentally psychically and was agressive to me, including telling other's untrue about me and hitting my body.
Hope that would get you motivated enough next time to not shout out to people for your own dilemmas, not provided "untrue" picture and making people only say what you wanted to say
n00bn00bAtFreenode t1_izqnsub wrote
Next time please don't attack people wo feel bad, who just want to discuss their struggle to be motivated. I feel your comment offend me but I see your emotions too so removed my original comment for others like you. But I see the things you said are for you also,as you attacking people about attacking ideas and breaking taboo/not behaving with honesty, and discussion level just crashed down.
Some of Posts arent so biased, in my original comment I said that they showing only people with wealth after 30y old so if one not have money then, they "can't" be successful - it could be colleraton, but was supposed by this chart.
You could see many other good motivating things here but if you say "there is so much people demotivating me and I hate them" then you required to be always motivated by others and it's your problem! You required to leech some time from others and not got it so are frustrated, and it's only your problem.
Maybe I am biased cause I had really bad 3 last year's and recap it this month, but I sometimes feel like I have depression, and just want to waste it as I not feel anything would, could be better. Recapping shows me also that mistakes I made was because I believed some people who told me I could believe, were about to be close friends but they used me and are piece of shits, used me mentally psychically and was agressive to me, including telling other's untrue about me and hitting my body.
Hope that would get you motivated enough next time to not shout out to people for your own dilemmas, not provided "untrue" picture and making people only say what you wanted to say
Dorsiflexionkey t1_izrj0ij wrote
nobody is shouting at you mate. If you want to take something that was meant to be motivational and turn it into something negative then I am allowed to call you out for it.
Dorsiflexionkey t1_izrj4y5 wrote
yeah, you get it.
I'm sick of Reddit's negativity when somebody tries hard to post something to make us feel better and change our lives then everybody looks for the tiniest little flaw to be demotivated again. It's disgusting, if you don't want motivation go somewhere else. If you want to defend your right to free speech on criticising the OP's post thats fine, but don't get your panties in a twist when somebody like me decides to use their free speech to call you out lol.
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kamiisamaa t1_izvd2u0 wrote
Is there a single woman on this chart? I don't want to be a man or a CEO billionaire so this motivational spell did not capture me
wsssixteen t1_izxfzlg wrote
Sure this chart doesn't make any sense in a lot of perspectives, but it is one that I've remembered for years.
This picture always makes me wonder about the quarter life crisis & mid-life crisis.
I don't think much about the age & people in the chart. I think more about the current big test in my life, is it a turning point?
I've went through major lows in my life, but this time I really believe it is one of those crisis checkpoints.
Life has pushed me to a certain point I need to change after holding on to a principle that I've followed for as long as I can remember.
Is it a quarter life or mid life crisis? I don't know, it probably doesn't matter, but I know it'll change my life in great magnitudes down the road.
If you guys will have to go through life altering events in the future, I wish the best for you & hope for the best outcome.
Low-Feedback-3403 t1_j06odxq wrote
So 61 is the end
KeivanAR t1_izlxpvr wrote
Thank you for sharing this reminder that it is never too late