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EveArgent t1_jdx7sx7 wrote
Reply to comment by DawnExplosion in Philly mayoral candidates stand in support of drag community by TransFattyAcid
Yeah. It's like they do it on purpose so that we don't get together and fight them for basic human rights or something like France right now.
Thanks for being a cool guy and having an open mind for conversation to happen. I'm glad I could be a cool person in this exchange too. Our country really has a yelling at people problem and I think it's very unproductive and divisive.
EveArgent t1_jdppgg8 wrote
Reply to comment by gdex86 in Philly mayoral candidates stand in support of drag community by TransFattyAcid
I have personally decided to start using the terms, "stay at home father" and "working father" because I think it's funny. And asking people. "Is your wife ok with you working?"... It's because it's such a ridiculous thing that men say to us. Like who fucking cares. They're not the owner of women. Lol
EveArgent t1_jdpp8mn wrote
Reply to comment by DawnExplosion in Philly mayoral candidates stand in support of drag community by TransFattyAcid
I wasn't trying to start fight and I don't think responsibility for the comment below me if it starts to fight. I was just really curious.
It's weird that the left thinks the right is fascist and the right thinks the left is fascist and that's a really dangerous place for us to be in.
My question is does it hurt you in any way to let other people define their gender differently? Besides that, you disagree. Like what harm does it do? The thing is, the left isn't trying to make it law that there's more than two genders, they would rather just be left alone and be allowed to exist.
It's a difficult place to be in because one sides very loud trying to defend their personhood and one sides very loud trying to defend their beliefs. But I truly think that both sides could probably be happy if everyone just agreed to leave everyone else alone. Like there's no harm in someone identifying as not a man or a woman, as there is no harm in someone identifying as a man or a woman. It's just something they deal with. I don't fully understand. But that's ok. I don't have to understand everything.
Your can absolutely disagree.
In my view, It's just that on one hand saying that someone else's identity is invalid threatens their personhood and agency to make choices and have a personal freedom. And it does nothing to you to let them do that. But denying it denies their personhood which historically has led to murdering and genocide and that's what they fear.
I think it's interesting that we've become so afraid of each other and it's really sad because honestly I don't think either side wants to hurt the other. But I think both sides are scared of losing their personhood and are reflexively lashing out where it's not needed. That makes me sad.
But thank you for sharing. Sometimes find it difficult to get into the headspace of someone who sees things differently and I think we could all use that kind of interaction. Understanding is what we need as a whole people. And things are just so high emotion that it's hard to get there sometimes.
Anyway. I wish you love and good fortune.
EveArgent t1_jdp5dnf wrote
Reply to comment by DawnExplosion in Philly mayoral candidates stand in support of drag community by TransFattyAcid
What "Woke stuff" do you object to?
I'm really wondering, I do not understand this perspective and I am curious what the problem is.
EveArgent t1_jdp545f wrote
I hate this country so much.
( I support the drag community and the fact that this is a fight is terrible and I hate it and I cannot understand why we are going so far backward so quickly and we need to be like the French and BURN SHIT DOWN.)
EveArgent t1_j58sbit wrote
Reply to Can an employer change original hourly wage when adding mandatory overtime to avoid paying overtime? by hellorubydoo
"We want you to put in more hours and get nothing out of it, but we promise that it's what's best for all of us. " Fuck 'em. fuck that. Do not sign it. Say, no. You can either pay me overtime or I can work my usual schedule., but I'm not taking a pay cut because you can't budget.
EveArgent t1_isuxb71 wrote
Shocker. Republican supreme court majority sides with a republican. I'm glad he still lost though, makes me laugh to know he must still be so butt hurt.
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Reply to Potato Chips - What is your favorite brand and type (Regular/Kettle, etc)? by Speakslinux
I am very partial to Herr's Sour Cream and Onion ruffly chips.